"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Feeling closed minded lately

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JohnChops

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So lately I've been feeling really restricted and closed off in my mind, especially when talking with women. For example the only topic I can come up with is about classes in college (how lame). I used to be able to be so opened minded and easily flow with women but I've seem to have taken a step backwards. Anyone have any ideas on how to get back to that open mindedness?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Perhaps you need to focus on other things, and you' ll naturally have other things to talk about when you approach women....
 
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Just open with something "lame" like about classes or whatever and let the conversation naturally lead to other more interesting stuff. Or steer the conversation towards something more interesting.

My best conversations started out with the most boring opening topic.
 
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