It also could be that you are just naturally introverted. I am like that. I need to get away from a crowd after a while to recharge. But when I am charged I am just fine at socializing and interacting. Don't forget, failure is only a learning tool to make yourself better, it's going to happen a lot in life, so make notes about what happened, learn from it, and move on. But, since you are introverted you most likely are naturally laid back. So take that laid back energy with you to the party to make other people feel relaxed. It works fine with me. Don't get overly dependent on using alcohol as a crutch for social interactions, it could cause you severe problems later on in your life.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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