"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spang

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what do u do when you feel unmotivated to talk to women? they seem so disinterested. i try to be ok with rejection but i cant help it im so tired of it i cant do it anymore.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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goundra

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aw, po' lil' fella! so do WITHOUT them, it's not the end of the world. I once went for 12 years without any pvssy, didn't bother me a lick, either.
 

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Take a break. Reconnect with the core reason you want to talk to women.
 

Mike32ct

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spang said:
what do u do when you feel unmotivated to talk to women? they seem so disinterested. i try to be ok with rejection but i cant help it im so tired of it i cant do it anymore.
It's actually a really good question.

Get involved in a hobby you genuinely are interested in so women have an excuse to talk to you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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