"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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feel uncomfortable with yourself?

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alotta times people dont feel comfortable with the way they look, they feel as though theyre being percieved as fools, they arent comfortable in their own skin.

i dont know if this will work with other people, but heres what i did. i got used to myself naked. not gawking in front of a mirror for hours, just taking a moment to examine myself when i got out of the shower, make comical commentary and move on.

you will get more comfortable in your naked apperance (something you might as well accept because you cant immediately change it). then, whenever you feel nervous or shiit, just imagine youre naked. and that youre damn proud of being naked. you cant adjust your belt or fiddle with your sleeves...your body language relaxes and your mindset is basically "here it is. no adjustments i can make now."

its liberating as hell.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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supajsilver2 said:
stole that from a seinfeld stand-up line. but a good thought.
haha i think seinfelds was about how he hated being naked and wanted a belt so he could adjust things and get himself together...but same principle, being naked is so final.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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