"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blackgame

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hello play boys whats good!


long time no see I have been away for along time I stop in to read every blue moon but have not seen anything worth writing about

but today I feel like writing so thats what um gonna do lol

anyway I have been thinking alot about state of mind and how does one go about ensuring that you are in a good state of mind... I am not talking about good state for pick up but good state period. To often I find myself upset or in a bad mood for what ever reason and it f**k my day up... I dont feel like approaching or talking to people for that matter some times its not a every day thing I am no chronic depressant by any stretch but I prefer not to be in a ba mood its bad for my job( supervisor)

thats just not acceptable so I started looking up ways to combat this...

I started working working on a "success model" some things that I will force me to be in a better state of mind

here is my list:

wake up early:
I dont know about you but if I wake up after 9 -10 it f**k my day up even on off days I like to have the most time allowed in a day

work out in the AM:
we all know that compound exercise release endorphins to the brain that puts you in a better state of mind... I want this "high" as soon as possible

read my affirmations:
I slack on these the most cause most of the time I don't feel like doing them but they really help

work on my goals:
right now my main goal is to get my business up and running I am so close I can feel it I usually work on this aspect of my life in the night but that feeling of accomplishment carries over

do you guys do something similar? or am I a lone wolf in this stuff lol

btw is there anything new going on that I may have missed?

-bg
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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