"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feel like I'm not good enough for girls until I buy my Bentley

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Do note that a nice apartment trumps a crappy house, but I'm sure yours is nice, and you get the point.

Well, if you are the type who likes to crawl under the car on hot asphalt and change the transmission fluid yourself, women do indeed love men who can fix cars. It's a great hobby. I kept my car all stock and it had every upgrade. Vader seats, in dash CD (it came with cassette originally), threaded steering wheel, carbon fiber trim, metal pedals. I loved that car like a family member for 18 seasons. It saw 33 states (all with the same gray cat).

That car sucks in my opinion.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That car sucks in my opinion.
Let's see how Richard's opinion measures up to reality.
  • The 1997 E36 BMW M3 (which I bought brand new at age 27) was the fastest production BMW in history. With an inline 6 it had the smoothest acceleration DYNO chart of any car. The 24 valve engine put out 240 hp stock but could easily be upgraded to practically unlimited horsepower.
  • Meanwhile, the suspension with perfect 50/50 balance (light engine and rear wheel posi) was so good it won Best Handling car in Car and driver and was car of the year for 3 years running.
  • Based on the M1 race car, it was a race car made street legal.
  • With a base price of $39,000 and coming loaded at $45,000 it would cost $69,000 today.
  • 0-60 in 5.5 seconds stock.
  • It's considered one of the Greatest 20 Sports Cars in history.
  • I drove it for 250,000 miles (ten times around the Earth, or the distance to the moon) and nearly half way back.
  • I got pulled over by an undercover cop doing 129. He was trembling. I said "are you ok"? and that saved me in court.
I would have done donuts around you Frog boy.
 
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Let's see how Richard's opinion measures up to reality.
  • The 1997 E36 BMW M3 (which I bought brand new at age 27) was the fastest production BMW in history. With an inline 6 it had the smoothest acceleration DYNO chart of any car. The 24 valve engine put out 240 hp stock but could easily be upgraded to practically unlimited horsepower.
  • Meanwhile, the suspension with perfect 50/50 balance (light engine and rear wheel posi) was so good it won Best Handling car in Car and driver and was car of the year for 3 years running.
  • Based on the M1 race car, it was a race car made street legal.
  • With a base price of $39,000 and coming loaded at $45,000 it would cost $69,000 today.
  • It's considered one of the Greatest 20 Sports Cars in history.
  • I would have done donuts around you Frog boy.
I'm just saying it looks ugly. I wouldn't want it.

I'm not a boy.
 

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I was going to buy an old BMW Z4 convertible
If you prefer an old Z4 to an M3, you're a f*cking stupid as-shole in my opinion. That was what my girlfriend in her 20's drove at the time! It had ZERO performance.

I'm not a boy.
So you're a girl named Richard?

I'm just saying it looks ugly. I wouldn't want it.
That was the car I drove. I didn't say you should buy it. It was a historically fabulous car, and when new WAY nicer than you can afford today (unless you are going to spend $70K) so your opinions saying it's ugly is like saying Angelina Jolie is ugly - you don't have consensus on your side. No, this was you being a rude mother f*cker when I was trying to help you learn about cars from a car enthusiast. F*ck you, ****.

Go learn about cars and come back some other time.
 
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If you prefer an old Z4 to an M3, you're a f*cking stupid as-shole in my opinion. That was what my girlfriend in her 20's drove at the time! It had ZERO performance.



So you're a girl named Richard?


That was the car I drove. I didn't say you should buy it. It was a historically fabulous car, and when new WAY nicer than you can afford today (unless you are going to spend $70K) so your opinions saying it's ugly is like saying Angelina Jolie is ugly - you don't have consensus on your side. No, this was you being a rude mother f*cker when I was trying to help you learn about cars from a car enthusiast. F*ck you, ****.

Go learn about cars and come back some other time.
You're obviously extremely insecure.

Probably because your d!Ck doesn't work.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As if you have a house. You live in Alpha Kappa house maybe, as long as you are the keg pumper (and carry that fake ID in case the cops show up again). Too bad your daddy's d!ck worked. What car did Lance Senior drive? Oh yeah, you never knew him.
I'm just trying to maximize my personality.
Zero times infinity is still zero.
 

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  • His/her ignorance level, to take that car and say "that car sucks, in my opinion" (which was off topic) is truly remarkable. He/she messed with the wrong guy in car talk. I was on M3forum dot com also, and was famous there. They hated me, but still.
  • He/she lives in his/her mommy's house and is the type who only cares how a car looks, not how it performs. I bet he/she doesn't even know how many cylinders the Z4 he/she likes has, and would buy an automatic.
  • He/she would buy a de-badged 318ti and say it makes him/her look cool.
  • Must be a woman. No man is that ignorant about cars. Dumb girls, yes, that was my whole point and I'm happier without it.
 

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You're obviously extremely insecure.

Probably because your d!Ck doesn't work.
Ding ding ding! My black girl alarm just went off! I will bet money RichardTheFrog is a non-white female.

Consider:
  • What man calls other men insecure?
  • WHEN DISCUSSING CARS??
  • What man talks about another man's d!ck?
  • What man questions whether another man's d!ck is working??? (Answer: It works more than you or your baby daddy, Latisha!)
  • What man would choose the name D!c-k on a forum????
Make no mistake, men, the females here posing as men should be put in jail. They are the anti-Trump force trying to destroy Western Civilization.
 
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Just because a lot of guys like a girl doesn't mean she has value. Any dumb slut can put on a tight dress and be sought after by hundreds of guys.

I'm struggling to see the value in any female. But there's enough guys that will inflate their egos that it's impossible to get them back down to reality that they're the weaker gender and not really worth that much.
Therein lies your problem. You want sex, which requires a woman; you want children, which requires a woman to bear them & mother them...but you think women are dumb slvts and have no value.

You don't have the first clue what sort of female to screen for. You think any "dumb slvt" in a tight dress is high value? Hardly. It only appears that way to the truly clueless.

No wonder women with sense steer clear. They can see your attitude coming a mile away.

Would you want a woman who thinks all men are as s h oles and doesn't see any value in a man? NO.

Why would a good woman give you the time of day? You think women are dumb, worthless, weak, and you don't see any value in them.

Earth to Richard!! No wonder you are doing terrible. You have set yourself up for failure and you think an expensive second hand car is the answer?

There are lots of threads here about a man's appearance, his outer presentation and his inner self. There are lots of threads here about how to screen for good women.

The problem is that you must have something substantive to offer to good women...because you are competing against EVERYONE for them.

Go read the many threads about what a good woman is and how to qualify a good woman. The information is on here. I would tell you but A.) you won't hear it from me (a chick) and B.) I think you may be whining to whine.

Learn to LOVE women. Men who love women are up to their eyeballs (or their actual balls) in women all the time. :rolleyes:
 
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Okay but I have a house, not an apartment. I'm not wanting someone to "date" me because of a car. I'm just trying to maximize my personality. What good is making a decent amount of money if I'm driving a 20 year old pickup with no a/c? I have to think of SOMETHING so that I don't just blend in with the crowd.
A car will not maximize your personality it will only slightly raise your SMV and mainly in low quality/value females. It Depends what 20+ year old pick up your driving. If it's a 70s c20 or k5 blazzer 4x4 raised frame off restoration then your ok. I have and had classic cars and trucks that made panties drop on sight and guys jock and drool over them more then my brand new cars and cars like Bentleys. But in hindsight the car only raised my confidence which in turn raised my personality which then raised my SMV. No matter what you do there will always be a more successful better looking AMOG out there and when it comes time for closing with women your car will be outside in the Parkinglot not being able to help you close at all.

At a certain point of car women do not have a clue what is up. It's more impressing to other low quality men. For example you could have a $70k 2017 Porsche next to a 2004ish BMW z8. Most women and low grade men would jock the Porsche. But the people in the know know that the BMW z8 is worth as much a 3 Porsche's.

Again if you have the 40k go buy a classic car for the women on the weekends and keep a brand new mid to upper range daily driver for work clients and women from time to time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Therein lies your problem. You want sex, which requires a woman; you want children, which requires a woman to bear them & mother them...but you think women are dumb slvts and have no value.

You don't have the first clue what sort of female to screen for. You think any "dumb slvt" in a tight dress is high value? Hardly. It only appears that way to the truly clueless.

No wonder women with sense steer clear. They can see your attitude coming a mile away.

Would you want a woman who thinks all men are as s h oles and doesn't see any value in a man? NO.

Why would a good woman give you the time of day? You think women are dumb, worthless, weak, and you don't see any value in them.

Earth to Richard!! No wonder you are doing terrible. You have set yourself up for failure and you think an expensive second hand car is the answer?

There are lots of threads here about a man's appearance, his outer presentation and his inner self. There are lots of threads here about how to screen for good women.

The problem is that you must have something substantive to offer to good women...because you are competing against EVERYONE for them.

Go read the many threads about what a good woman is and how to qualify a good woman. The information is on here. I would tell you but A.) you won't hear it from me (a chick) and B.) I think you may be whining to whine.

Learn to LOVE women. Men who love women are up to their eyeballs (or their actual balls) in women all the time. :rolleyes:
So I should suck up to them and tell them what special little snowflakes they are?
 
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Why are you all indulging this clown? He is TROLLING this forum.
Of course he Or she is trolling or clowning. I believe
If you indulge and inform clowns and kick knowledge then the next troll or clowns avenue is blocked. As long as im not in gauging them and rolling in the mud with them I think it's humor.
 

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As per Shakespeare

" she doeth protest too much!"...

Slinging at two of the heavy hitters here ( BE n BN)

Straight from how to win friends and influence eh....
 

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I was going to buy an old BMW Z4 convertible but when I saw it, it just wasn't enough for me. I need a really cool car to show off my "rich guy" persona. I might even get it in some peacocked color like blue, green, or burnt orange.

What does this say about me, by the way?

I feel like I'm not living up to my full potential without this and that it will drastically increase my success with women.
You, my friend, have inner game issues to iron out. You should be comfortable with who you are as a human being without possessions. "Needing" things as a crutch conveys insecurity, self-doubt and fear of rejection.

Read the DJ Bible.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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according to the "it's all about $$$" crew on here, you aren't.
 

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To all, repeating again: Frog boy is either a troll or totally beyond help. Either way, you're wasting your time replying to him.

-Augustus-
 
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