"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feel like I'm lowering my standards just to get laid.

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Ah dude, I feel like a let down. I brought back this ug, total ug, but she is fvckable back home. My mom, saw her. I had to introduce and emphasis her as ''My friend''. I'm totally disgusted in myself, not just for bringing her home, but for making calls to her, even if it was a one-missed-calls so she could ring me back. This girl is tyotally not compatable within my realm, not just looks god damn it, but for personality. She is extremely narrow-minded, paranoid and anxious. Why would you go through the trouble then? Because I thought she'd be an easy lay in the park or somewhere on the street.

I had no intentions of bringing her back home, but she was near me, and I had just got back from work, so I said what the hell. I also thought nobody was home. But I feel, almost ashamed at myself for bringing back such an ugly girl to the house. It's crazy, because my family have seen all my ex's, and most of the girls I've brought back. Usually, 7-8 range. But this girl was definetly a girl I wouldn't want to be seen with. She just had an ass and thats it.

What made matters worse is I got 1/2 a lay. If that makes sense? This is the 2nd time this year, that the same scenario, different girl happend. This is exactly what happens.

1.Cold Approach the girl, 2. Minimal talk on the phone for maybe 2-3 days MAX, 3. Meet up, come to my place, 4. Talk for 30minutes until I start escalating, 5. Girl eventually and hesitantly pulls trousers off, 6. I slide my cvck up and down her thighs, pvussy and ass. 7. Her trousers and knickers magically travel upwards. 8. She leaves, whilst I whack myself off. 9. Never heard from again.

I basically just ''poke'', instead of ''thrusting'' them. Thats why I call it a semi-lay.

Exactly in this sequence. Uh, I'm disgusted. I'm going to bed, in fetal position.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Mad Ghost said:
Ah dude, I feel like a let down. I brought back this ug, total ug, but she is fvckable back home. My mom, saw her. I had to introduce and emphasis her as ''My friend''. I'm totally disgusted in myself, not just for bringing her home, but for making calls to her, even if it was a one-missed-calls so she could ring me back. This girl is tyotally not compatable within my realm, not just looks god damn it, but for personality. She is extremely narrow-minded, paranoid and anxious. Why would you go through the trouble then? Because I thought she'd be an easy lay in the park or somewhere on the street.

I had no intentions of bringing her back home, but she was near me, and I had just got back from work, so I said what the hell. I also thought nobody was home. But I feel, almost ashamed at myself for bringing back such an ugly girl to the house. It's crazy, because my family have seen all my ex's, and most of the girls I've brought back. Usually, 7-8 range. But this girl was definetly a girl I wouldn't want to be seen with. She just had an ass and thats it.

What made matters worse is I got 1/2 a lay. If that makes sense? This is the 2nd time this year, that the same scenario, different girl happend. This is exactly what happens.

1.Cold Approach the girl, 2. Minimal talk on the phone for maybe 2-3 days MAX, 3. Meet up, come to my place, 4. Talk for 30minutes until I start escalating, 5. Girl eventually and hesitantly pulls trousers off, 6. I slide my cvck up and down her thighs, pvussy and ass. 7. Her trousers and knickers magically travel upwards. 8. She leaves, whilst I whack myself off. 9. Never heard from again.

I basically just ''poke'', instead of ''thrusting'' them. Thats why I call it a semi-lay.

Exactly in this sequence. Uh, I'm disgusted. I'm going to bed, in fetal position.

WHAT? I DON'T UNDERSTAND. YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG.
 

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WHAT? I DON'T UNDERSTAND. YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG.
What I mean is, I poke, instead of thrusting. In-and-out. But, not totally in. Anyway, she kept pulling her knickers up, but nothing else. She didn't even say she didn't want to do anything, after a while, I just gave up. Then her phone rang and she said, ''Just fvck me, thats all you want me for anyway''

I just disagreed and opened the door for her.
 

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What I mean is, I poke, instead of thrusting. In-and-out. But, not totally in. Anyway, she kept pulling her knickers up, but nothing else. She didn't even say she didn't want to do anything, after a while, I just gave up. Then her phone rang and she said, ''Just fvck me, thats all you want me for anyway''

I just disagreed and opened the door for her.
YOUR WORDS MAKE NO SENSE. ALL I SEE IS DARKNESS AND CHAOS. NONE OF US ARE SAFE.

No seriously...you're doing it wrong. You got your d1ck out and your rubbing it on her pvssy and you won't fvck her? Sounds like the problem is you man. I'm not even addressing the woman's looks, I'm just confused on your lack of fvcking ability and bedroom dominance. Are you a virgin?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warrior74 said:
YOUR WORDS MAKE NO SENSE. ALL I SEE IS DARKNESS AND CHAOS. NONE OF US ARE SAFE.

No seriously...you're doing it wrong. You got your d1ck out and your rubbing it on her pvssy and you won't fvck her? Sounds like the problem is you man. I'm not even addressing the woman's looks, I'm just confused on your lack of fvcking ability and bedroom dominance. Are you a virgin?
It's not that I didn't want to fvck her. She hesitated to pull her trousers down. She said, I better not try to put it in her, this girl was a total BPD if I look at it now. She wanted it, but just some of it, when she got some of it, she wanted all of it, then didn't want it and so on.

And also for the fact, that she was guarding ''just'' her puvssy like a lineback. But everything else was not off limits. I asked her why she was, and she said she just doesn't like getting fingered. So I tried and tried, but she kept slapping my hands away, then she would pull her entire pants up again, resulting in me having to start from scratch, and no I'm not a virgin. I've slept with over 30 girls, but 2 girls have done this weird shyt to date.
 

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Before I proceed to give you advice (which a guru would charge you a $399 for a phone consultation for)

I must see a picture of this said, "subject"
 

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sounds like you didn't want to **** her and she didn't want to **** you
 

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haha you should never bring an ugly ***** to your house. should of went to her place or a hotel.
 

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I had a UG at my place 2 days ago, I couldn't even motivated myself to escalate, she waited an hour and after that she was gone !! Well if you are lowering your standards to get laid, so you should be ok with that, otherwise you just gotta work harder for the things you really want...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you need a change in mentality...no offense but you sound soft man like a little b1tch, and if I can feel that through the internet just imagine what the girls feel from you
 

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joe henny said:
you need a change in mentality...no offense but you sound soft man like a little b1tch, and if I can feel that through the internet just imagine what the girls feel from you
LOL, why is this Player Supreme alumni still here? You can't feel shyt. You idiot, you're not a player or mack. Just a big mac. I brought back an ugly broad to my place, I get compliments thrown at me, within 2 days this girl wanted to see me. How can you sound soft on the internets, you clown.
 

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"feels like Im lowering my standards to get laid" Whining like a little b1tch. Come on now....your the one in his middle to late 20's whos still a virgin chump.
 

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joe henny said:
"feels like Im lowering my standards to get laid" Whining like a little b1tch. Come on now....your the one in his middle to late 20's whos still a virgin chump.
I've been banging girls since I was in High School, you water bottle. Go back to Player Surpreme's rambling on about ''macking'' and all that other bafoonery. You're not welcome here with that crap. Who do you think you're, coming here, telling us about ''Being a player'' and spouting advice, your boss has already been ''BANNED'' from here, hopefully, you'll be next.

And yes, I am lowering my standards JUST to get laid. Whilst I'm in the field. I am getting LAID though. Period. Whilst you're here, talking shyt about the difference beteween Players and PUA's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been banging girls since I was in High School, you water bottle. Go back to Player Surpreme's rambling on about ''macking'' and all that other bafoonery. You're not welcome here with that crap. Who do you think you're, coming here, telling us about ''Being a player'' and spouting advice, your boss has already been ''BANNED'' from here, hopefully, you'll be next.

And yes, I am lowering my standards JUST to get laid. Whilst I'm in the field. I am getting LAID though. Period. Whilst you're here, talking shyt about the difference beteween Players and PUA's.
Lol like I said "whining like a little *****". If you have been getting laid then you must have been getting very lucky since you obviously can't get a quality girl and have to lower your standard. I had my game straight long before I heard of PS idiot. I do though, like his style of game. I also like Tariq Nasheed, these are probably the two most practical people online.

Getting laid isn't a big accomplishment fella, especially if you have to whine and ***** about the women your banging. If they're so bad put a lunchbag on their face clown.
 

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Lol like I said "whining like a little *****". If you have been getting laid then you must have been getting very lucky since you obviously can't get a quality girl and have to lower your standard. I had my game straight long before I heard of PS idiot. I do though, like his style of game. I also like Tariq Nasheed, these are probably the two most practical people online.

Getting laid isn't a big accomplishment fella, especially if you have to whine and ***** about the women your banging. If they're so bad put a lunchbag on their face clown.
Who cares about your past, or who you like. The fact that you came here, telling us, from your very first post, of being from Player Supreme's camp, tells me you're a dumb wannabe player. Then you post two of the same threads, begging for us to shed some light on it.

Nobody ever said getting laid was an accomplishment. Everybody would like to fu>ck solid 8s and 9s on consistancy. And I'm sure there are guys, who are in the 10% who actually are. I'm not whigning about women, I'm whigning about the women I fu>ck. BIG DIFFERENCE, you misfit. Go back to your PS alumni, I'm through monkyeing around with your macking-ass.

The last two girls I've laid where 7s. The girl yesterday was a 5. My ex's were 8s. You know nothing. I've slept with over 30 girls, I got the fvcking spreadsheet to brag if I wanted to you fake sipping henny-wannabe. What do you know of girls anyway. Get outter here
 

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Who cares about your past, or who you like. The fact that you came here, telling us, from your very first post, of being from Player Supreme's camp, tells me you're a dumb wannabe player. Then you post two of the same threads, begging for us to shed some light on it.

Nobody ever said getting laid was an accomplishment. Everybody would like to fu>ck solid 8s and 9s on consistancy. And I'm sure there are guys, who are in the 10% who actually are. I'm not whigning about women, I'm whigning about the women I fu>ck. BIG DIFFERENCE, you misfit. Go back to your PS alumni, I'm through monkyeing around with your macking-ass.

The last two girls I've laid where 7s. The girl yesterday was a 5. My ex's were 8s. You know nothing. I've slept with over 30 girls, I got the fvcking spreadsheet to brag if I wanted to you fake sipping henny-wannabe. What do you know of girls anyway. Get outter here

I have never lowered myself to a "5" in my life. spread sheets huh?

"Girl eventually and hesitantly pulls trousers off, 6. I slide my cvck up and down her thighs, pvussy and ass. 7. Her trousers and knickers magically travel upwards. 8. She leaves, whilst I whack myself off"

So when did you start doing this as routine? Good luck :crackup:
 

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joe henny said:
I have never lowered myself to a "5" in my life. spread sheets huh?

"Girl eventually and hesitantly pulls trousers off, 6. I slide my cvck up and down her thighs, pvussy and ass. 7. Her trousers and knickers magically travel upwards. 8. She leaves, whilst I whack myself off"

So when did you start doing this as routine? Good luck :crackup:
Everyone has their own definitions of ranking they give their girls. A 5 for me, consists of a not-so cute face, whilst her body is fu>ckable. Basically, you're saying you get everything above a 5. I don't even think you get chicks, let alone talking about standards.

I could've fu>cked her if I wanted to. She loves me and she knows I'm out of her leaugue, I also suspect she had sex a few times, as she wanted it, but was friggid. Nobody from PS's teachings can come here and try to shame anyone, that boat sailed along time ago. Your macking crap is out-dated.
 

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I think everyone is missing the point of this thread.
Everyone's asking all the right questions about the wrong situation.

Don't ask about the girl... ask Mad Ghost WHY he feels the need to lower his standards?

That's the true question his post is bringing up.

So I'll ask it: Why, Mad Ghost?

What's going on in your life that you feel that you need to lower your standards? Are you having any sort of problem meeting women or talking to them or what?

If I were ever THAT ashamed to bring someone home, it's usually the indicator of one or two circumstances:

(1) Personal problems
(2) Alcohol-induced visual coma

Obviously, there seems to have been no alcohol involved and you were conscious of the decision you were making, so that means there is some other underlying problem that's beginning to surface in order to make you lower your standards.

Care to share?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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