"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feel like i'm being used

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zubs

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I just feel like some of my friends use me. I thought about this the other day after I brought two of my friends over to his house to hang out. Also, here I give two other friends rides home like every day, and not once have they asked me to hang out, or told me about so-and-so's party.
Im kinda pissed off because of this; not because i mind doing the things, i just want some reciprocity.

How can i get them to start returning the favor?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't always be there for them. Show them that you aren't going to give them a ride every day. Next time they come up to you expecting a ride say that you have to be somewhere and make them walk home.
 
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Nygard

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Get something to do. Therefore you wouldnt have time. Ask them for favours too. If they refuse, you'll want to reconsider what kind of people they really are.
 
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