Feel like I get quick "flashes" of DJ

[Scorrere]

Lately, I feel like I've been getting quick "Flashes" of the DJ mentality. Occasionally, it's like my entire attitude towards life will change and I start to feel like I can go out there and get those girls I've always wanted. Then it seems to fade. I'll start to feel like I am worthy of these girls and to just go out there with that inherent value and start approaching.

How can I make this sort of attitude constant? This is the best state I've gotten to so far though I'm coming from way way down in the dumps (never even kissed a girl, no dates only ever done one approach).

 

[Kal0051]

Yeah, I know what you mean. I get the same thing, it's usually when I don't give a ****.

 

[trickz]

I finding reading books about pick up before i go to bed puts me in a possitive mind the next day.
And when you're walking down the street and a hot woman passes but you dont have time to open her i always think to myself "I could of had her if i wanted".

 

[randalll]

Lately, I feel like I've been getting quick "Flashes" of the DJ mentality. Occasionally, it's like my entire attitude towards life will change and I start to feel like I can go out there and get those girls I've always wanted. Then it seems to fade. I'll start to feel like I am worthy of these girls and to just go out there with that inherent value and start approaching.

i know what you mean, i felt great last night, went out and had a good time

but the night before i felt like an afc.

i'm not sure what can be done but i felt afc that night becasue i was pissed off about something that'd happened in the day.. basically, one of my housemates always tries to put me down, patronizes me, etc.

i let that get to me the first night and so it was in the back of my mind, for most of the evening.

but i'm not worrying about it at all now, i know that the problem's with him, and it's not going to play on my mind anymore.

it would be nice to be able to feel good, like i do now, regardless of what's just happened.. wether it be a lousy friend, or losing your job


im reading Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now at the moment, it's a really good book, and relevant to your situation, check it out.

 

[Waking Up]

It's a tricky situation. Sometimes I feel free as hell and my game goes up as a result, but then at the same time my ego raises up sky high and what must go up must come down. You literally have to shout in your head that you don't give a fvck, like in class the other day I started rocking my chair and pounding my chest like a monkey, got back in touch with my primal nature and as a result the girl next to me couldn't stop laughing. You have to literally lose yourself, the problem is, how to do it consistently and not have to deal with the ego's fall.

I hate the paradox.

 

[yuppaz]

Hey guys,

I'm in the same boat. The guys on RSD talk about this stuff a lot and say that it's the key to natural game. One of the things they mention and I have seen Tyler talk about in videos is to do completely random silly @ss sh*t like get together with a friend before approaching and stuff and just amusing yourself with totally random crap, like you said acting like a monkey, running around i n a weird way, skipping etc. Someone mentioned waking up in the morning and thinking about all the things that you appreciate in life. I did that the other day and it helped me a lot. I'll also sometimes sing out loud (not that quietly) to funny songs. Maybe like that song "whatcha gonna do with all that junk, all that junk inside your trunk", or RED Hot Chille Peppers etc. Helps me. Also when something negative creeps into your head to remember that you don't have to hold onto that feeling, you can just let it go and think about something positive.