"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MountainSlide

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So I was working on this assignment in university with this HB7. I'm not trying to bang her, I am trying to make friends with her because she is friends with sooo many HBs. Anyway, we had a right answer for the assignment but I thought it was wrong and convinced her that it was wrong but it was actually right, so we both got it wrong and I feel like a dunce for convincing her to put the wrong answer down. any ideas on how to recover from that? It wasn't worth very much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Talk to her and commiserate over it. Don't take personal responsibility for it but make it out to be a mistake on both of your parts (or ideally her mistske) and see where its at.
 

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Always know that with women, it's not a problem until you vocalize it. So just keep mum about it.
 

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If you ever get anywhere with this girl.. she will use this to **** test you and she prolly already told all her friends about it.

Tuff one.
 

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****y and funny is called for here, along with lots of confidence. "Haha yea fvcked that one up, good thing I am so awesome". That kind of thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso said:
Always know that with women, it's not a problem until you vocalize it. So just keep mum about it.
this

never mention it again
 

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El Payaso said:
Always know that with women, it's not a problem until you vocalize it. So just keep mum about it.
Double This. ****y and funny. Tell her Double or nothing on the next one. Laugh it off and proceed. This little bs will not affect anything unless you let it.
 

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Yeah I mean it is kind of funny because I was soooo ****y and whenever my ****iness meets academics I phuck things up. I was basically making fun of other people for being stupid and then it turns out they were right and I am the one that is stupid.. It looks bad. But on the other hand, they didn't know **** and everyone was just copying answers from who knows where and hoping they were right. Not one person could explain how they got their answer because they were all just cheating including this batch. So I don't know why I should feel bad, I don't think I will be sharing my answers and opinions with others in the future on this sh*t though because it is way more headache than it is worth. Also I am going to ask her to come hang out and study with me again and see if she is down.
 
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