Guys Im kinda down at this time.
I recently decided to end a relationship with a girl, whom I'd been going out with for two years. We both met at work and instantly hit it off as she was an exciting, extremely beautiful looking girl, who at the time seemed to really genuine and nice. I liked her a lot!
anyway to cut the story short, it didn't work out as planned!, she had issues with relationhips as she told me. Previous boyfriends had kissed the ground that she walked on and this is what she was used to. I found her to be self absorbed, thoughless and immature so I ended it with her last month.
We have had minimal contact since then. Although I was the one to end the relationship, I do value her friendship and would like to remain friends with her, but I think I was too harsh with her when I told her I was walking away. She wanted to know the exact reasons and insisted I told her my true reasons for ending it, so I did, I told her the above of what I mentioned about the way she was. No surprise I think I hurt her, but I didnt mean to, I just felt she needed to hear some hard facts about herself instead of letting her off with the disrespect that she gave me (we were meant to be going on holiday together but she invited a load of her workmates along with us, without even telling me!,amongst other incidents)
She posted this on her website which I think is in reference to me!
"Every person is a new door to a different world. if someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge and cross it leaving it all behind "
I do feel guilty as I hate hurting any person, and this girl is hurt by what I said to her and I dont know what to do about it!, do I try and talk to her, remain friends or do I just cut my loses and move on, Im totally stuck at the crossroads with this one!....I only want to be friends with her, I have no interest in going back to her! what do I do here?
I recently decided to end a relationship with a girl, whom I'd been going out with for two years. We both met at work and instantly hit it off as she was an exciting, extremely beautiful looking girl, who at the time seemed to really genuine and nice. I liked her a lot!
anyway to cut the story short, it didn't work out as planned!, she had issues with relationhips as she told me. Previous boyfriends had kissed the ground that she walked on and this is what she was used to. I found her to be self absorbed, thoughless and immature so I ended it with her last month.
We have had minimal contact since then. Although I was the one to end the relationship, I do value her friendship and would like to remain friends with her, but I think I was too harsh with her when I told her I was walking away. She wanted to know the exact reasons and insisted I told her my true reasons for ending it, so I did, I told her the above of what I mentioned about the way she was. No surprise I think I hurt her, but I didnt mean to, I just felt she needed to hear some hard facts about herself instead of letting her off with the disrespect that she gave me (we were meant to be going on holiday together but she invited a load of her workmates along with us, without even telling me!,amongst other incidents)
She posted this on her website which I think is in reference to me!
"Every person is a new door to a different world. if someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge and cross it leaving it all behind "
I do feel guilty as I hate hurting any person, and this girl is hurt by what I said to her and I dont know what to do about it!, do I try and talk to her, remain friends or do I just cut my loses and move on, Im totally stuck at the crossroads with this one!....I only want to be friends with her, I have no interest in going back to her! what do I do here?
