"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feel good or feel happy

Dalshtröm

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When was the last time you felt happy? Like really happiness arising in you and you can feel it totally. I literally can feel good only. Like, everything is okay, good. I don't even remember when was the last time I felt a real happiness, bliss fullness, maybe when I was a kid was the last time? I clearly remember my childhood was full of bliss and joy.

So tell me don Juan's, when was the last time you felt a deep happiness arising that you went on remembering it for days, maybe weeks. Any experiences are welcomed here. And also tell me what made you felt that way. What was the specific thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smok1nAce

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been feeling happy for a while, knowing i got my health and a good family. and i do the right thing.
 

BigSmooth

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Went snowboarding with several buddies during winter break. One day we made first call, and went down this black trail that hadn't been touched yet and the snow machines were still blasting powder into the air. We boarded through the trail with powder engulfing us in a huge cloud, as if we were in our own world.

It was an amazing feeling.
 

iamnobody

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Two days ago, after finishing a cool project and again, same night while cumming inside a freshly picked HB9.
 

Packers2010

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hmm.. well there was this one time i went on a date with a girl and it went well. ( or so i thought i was 15 at the time i had no idea.)

but realy today was pretty good. start to work out, got some **** done was good. good not great
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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