"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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feel drowsy at work ?

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do you guys feel drowsy during the afternoon at work?
How do you cope with it besides taking coffee?
Do you take power naps ?

I feel drowsy at certain time of the day regardless whether I take coffee. I have to sneak off to a seclude place or food court to take my nap for 15min. It really energize my body for the rest of the day. My internal batteries are recharged.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I know what you are feeling. Its called boredom + crappy food.

Clean up your diet a bit. Get more veggies and fruits. And doing something mentally stimulating helps too... diet is more important though.
 

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Power naps aren't needed if you get like 8-10 hours of sleep.


Sleep is equal to diet in my opinion. Without proper rest, your body begins to break down, it doesn't have enough time to "repair" itself
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Try taking B12 vitamin and some Green tea. Also workout and and eat right
 

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yip! me too! i am always feeling tired and take naps!

i work out and take protein but always feel tired afterwards!
 

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It's tough for me to get 10 hours of sleep when I work til 1130, and get up at 6:30. I often times can't get to sleep for another hour or two after I get off work.
 

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I sleep early and eat plenty of vegetables. I still feel drowsy during mid afternoon regardless of my well I felt earlier in the morning. I have to take power nap or else I have to take caffeine pill.
 

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I used to feel the same. What I have done recently is:

1) Cut out the caffeine - I no longer drink diet soda's (never drank coffee) - it was hard at first - but then I had some minor surgery where I couldn't drink soda's for a few days - after that I just continued avoiding soda. I got some raging head aches at first - but they stopped after about 1.5 weeks.

2) Have water available all the time. I purchased water holder for my home. It holds hot and cold 5 gallon containers of water - and I have 5 of them. I always have fresh, cold, clean water available. I fill up a bottle every time I pass. I have a bottle sitting in my car ready for me for the morning commute - and I fill it up again before I leave for the drive home. I water at my desk all day. (I purchased some crystal light packets as well - to add some flavor to the water a few times per day)

3) I'm got getting any more sleep - but I don't find I need it. I'm actually getting up an hour earlier int he morning and going to bed about an hour earlier.

4) eatting more whole oats and fiber.

5) eating more and more variety fruits and vegatables. Always have fruit cut up in the fridge in handy plastic containers (I buy deli meat that comes in plastic containers and re-use the containers to store food). It's then easy to grab a container when I head out the door - or as a healthy snack when watch a movie.

These changes have made a big difference I believe.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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