"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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feel down, could use some advice

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Well, while I agree that you´ve been acting like an AFC. I know it´s not easy even if you were a DJ. These BPDs (even HPDs) girls, if she´s really one, break you down little by little. Many unaware Djs were turned into pyssies by them. They have a way of entering your mind and spirit that only those who´ve been through know what I´m talking about. That´s why it´s so hard to let them go, and people outside this dynamics cannot understand or see the mindfyck that had been done behind the scenes. They become whoever is necessary to ensnare you, and after that they´re gone, it´s all about the ego (validation) and fear. They do that for a living. This game is so masterfully played that you feel completely guilty and responsible for the whole situation while they pick up their mirrors to play somewhere else. They are called Sirens for a reason.

A way of turning the tables on her is moving on, showing you´re happy without her and not caring if she´s banging other guys. This will fyck her up so hard she will even start chasing you back to keep you under her spell. If you´re a master player, you can make her seduce you constantly and turn her into a FB without her even knowing since she´s controlled by fear of abandonment. That´s why she seduced you in the first place.

I think you are under no condition to pull this card on her. You´ve already been poisoned and she knows this. That´s why she was taking you for granted and discarded you. See my sig.

AGAIN, IF SHE WAS ONE. That´s tricky to know. Maybe you´re a full blown AFC, if this is the case, then you´re 100% to blame here.

Take a look:
http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/200...sonality-is-she-a-borderline-or-a-narcissist/
Mindfyck:
http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2010/02/24/how-abusive-women-brainwash-you/
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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