"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Feel bored of and only want sex from my LTR..?

BeardOfZeus

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been with this girl for bout a year and a half, everything was great up till a few months ago but recently i've been losing intrest in her heavily and I dont know why.

before i actually enjoyed spending time with her but now the only time i even wanna be around her in when im horny and wanna have sex..

i have an extremely high sex drive btw and she has a low sex drive so I feel like im missing out bigtime by being in this relationship. we have sex atleast once a week but its really getting to me because its nowhere near enough..

im thinking of breaking up with her and moving on but I dont wanna break up when she hasnt really done anything wrong. advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BeardOfZeus said:
been with this girl for bout a year and a half, everything was great up till a few months ago but recently i've been losing intrest in her heavily and I dont know why.

before i actually enjoyed spending time with her but now the only time i even wanna be around her in when im horny and wanna have sex..

i have an extremely high sex drive btw and she has a low sex drive so I feel like im missing out bigtime by being in this relationship. we have sex atleast once a week but its really getting to me because its nowhere near enough..

im thinking of breaking up with her and moving on but I dont wanna break up when she hasnt really done anything wrong. advice?
You can talk to her about it and hopefully she meets in the middle of you two's sex drives. A woman doesn't have to always "WANT" it for her to be able to have sex, she simply has to allow it and participate. Her body will turn on.

Also they now have a female sexual aid which increases a woman's libido, think it may be called "libigrow" or something like this. they say its like a female "Viagra", but females can take Viagra and Cialis already. It will increase blood flow to the genetals and make them respond easier.

However this "libigro" or whatever they are calling it actually revs up her sex drive and desire, so it will create actual lust where a female who is "cold" needs to "HAVE" it, because her desire has been boosted.

See if you can work with her sex drive, and part if it is her taking care of you in the relationship, so she should want to increase that number if it is torture for you.
 
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