"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Feel bored of and only want sex from my LTR..?

BeardOfZeus

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been with this girl for bout a year and a half, everything was great up till a few months ago but recently i've been losing intrest in her heavily and I dont know why.

before i actually enjoyed spending time with her but now the only time i even wanna be around her in when im horny and wanna have sex..

i have an extremely high sex drive btw and she has a low sex drive so I feel like im missing out bigtime by being in this relationship. we have sex atleast once a week but its really getting to me because its nowhere near enough..

im thinking of breaking up with her and moving on but I dont wanna break up when she hasnt really done anything wrong. advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BeardOfZeus said:
been with this girl for bout a year and a half, everything was great up till a few months ago but recently i've been losing intrest in her heavily and I dont know why.

before i actually enjoyed spending time with her but now the only time i even wanna be around her in when im horny and wanna have sex..

i have an extremely high sex drive btw and she has a low sex drive so I feel like im missing out bigtime by being in this relationship. we have sex atleast once a week but its really getting to me because its nowhere near enough..

im thinking of breaking up with her and moving on but I dont wanna break up when she hasnt really done anything wrong. advice?
You can talk to her about it and hopefully she meets in the middle of you two's sex drives. A woman doesn't have to always "WANT" it for her to be able to have sex, she simply has to allow it and participate. Her body will turn on.

Also they now have a female sexual aid which increases a woman's libido, think it may be called "libigrow" or something like this. they say its like a female "Viagra", but females can take Viagra and Cialis already. It will increase blood flow to the genetals and make them respond easier.

However this "libigro" or whatever they are calling it actually revs up her sex drive and desire, so it will create actual lust where a female who is "cold" needs to "HAVE" it, because her desire has been boosted.

See if you can work with her sex drive, and part if it is her taking care of you in the relationship, so she should want to increase that number if it is torture for you.
 
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