"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Feel bad for breaking her heart.

nousername

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How do you guys not feel bad when all the girls are chasing you, you **** them, they fall for you even when you tell them that you dont want anything serious?

I actually feel sorry for them because i know how it feels to have your heartbroken. I'm going through it now with an ex.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sylvester the cat

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We are not responsible for other people's feelings. We are all responsible for our own feelings.

Learn to master your emotions rather than be a slave to them and you will master your love life and the world.
 

nousername

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sylvester the cat said:
We are not responsible for other people's feelings. We are all responsible for our own feelings.

Learn to master your emotions rather than be a slave to them and you will master your love life and the world.

GREAT reply. Really put it into perspective for me thanks man.
 

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Are there really women out there who would NOT sleep with any man that shows the highest value possible, (in their perspective).

Think Brad Pitt for example, shows up and wants to **** your wife. The only way she wouldn't is if she didn't let him get to her EMOTIONS before her logic kicks in and tells her its the wrong thing to do.

Basically, are all women sluts or?
 

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That is true. The hardest thing i've been going through at the moment is breaking up with my 3 year GF whom i'm her first sexual partner and real first love. Although i do think that a lot of girls go through a "slutty" stage, in their life. Not sure if they all ACT on it, but i know they definitely feel it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SgtSplacker

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Women do not feel the same emotion as men. If you see me crying that means somebody died. If you see my ex crying that means she's watching Lifetime. As long as you didn't do some horrible thing to her just keep moving. She even cries for those feed the hungry commercials...
 

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And you think that girl never broke another dude apart as you're doing now? Come on. She probably has 20 stamps on the side of her plane like a WWII ace.
 

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The more experienced you get with women, and the better understanding you have of the female nature, the less inclined you become to give a sh!t about their feelings. There is a reason why guys who sleep with lots of women treat them like dirt.
 

Dgwizdal

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Just nexted one of my best friends and she's devestated. Ya this sh*t is no fun and of course I am going to look even more of an a**hole in my social circle. Sweet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Starfvcks 64

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"lil momma I'm sorry, I never meant to ball like this." - George Washington, US President

I really can't feel bad because I've seen how quick they can move on and I've seen how many fvkcs they don't give when the situation is reversed.
It's only bad when i've been friends with the girl and she's in my circle.
It's fine though, because my circle is full of white knight crybabies eager to comfort her by telling her i'm just a misogynistic *******.
 
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