Feel bad about banging some guy's GF

[zinc4]

I met her at a club this weekend and she told me she has a BF overseas who she is going to live with after leaving here in one month...we had some really kinky sex and i was eating her out and fingering her while she was on the phone with him telling him she missed him and loved him....at first it felt exciting...but now i can't help but feel dirty.

Some guys are just big time suckers....i would never be with a girl like her and this guy sends her money from overseas every month she told me to help support her....holy sh%t some guys have it bad. I almost wanted to take the phone from her out of pity and say dude i am banging your GF, i would dump her if i were you.

And when we parted ways she was practically begging me to spend the entire next day with her after we crashed together in a hotel.

That will def be the last and only time i bang her, though.

 

[foreverAFC]

very sad

 

[MikeAndIke]

Damn bro. Thats crazy. Thats fvcked up that she called him while you fingered her. I think I would stopped and have left right there.

 

[Masculinity]

This reminds me of my first experience with a girl who had a bf. I was (unknowingly) licking her tits and rubbing her pvssy as she was on the phone telling her boyfriend she was at a movie with "the girls." She even told him she had to get off the phone and not be rude to her friend(s). I felt bad and I don't want to blame the victim (the other guy). On the other hand, it happens all the time. If you aren't banging her, someone else will. Don't overstress about it, man.

 

[zinc4]

she just texted me saying hey bad boy and asked me what i was doing......a girl like this is not worthy of a reply...her guy needs to wise up

 

[BPH]

Been there done that more than once. I'd want to bang these girls again, but I sure as hell wouldn't do a relationship. One of them broke up with her boyfriend for a short time, wanted a relationship with me.

I only wanted sex, being a college freshman, plus she was a cheater, so I declined.

Point being, don't stress it. I haven't had any problems beyond some slight moral guilt.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Girls get off on this type of thing, this is why you don't allow yourself to get oneitis for any female. You must get to know a girl first before you place any value on her.

Whenever you start to feel like she is the one, take a step back and think of how the dude on the phone never thought she was capable of doing this to him.

 

[Cremasta]

Unless the guy is a mate of yours (in which case that's poor form), then why deny yourself some fun?

You get some play, plus you strike one low value girl off your list of potential LTR's.

So she's a slag, so what? Don't put some obligation on yourself to become the moral police. If she's not getting it from you, she'll find another dyck.

 

[GotED?]

As many bad apples there are in a basket, so are there good apples.

 

[Masculinity]

Just out of curiosity: to what would you attribute her calling you bad boy?

 

[sageproduct]

I think you should bang her again. You don't owe anything to the bf.

 

[BeDJ]

I met up with my friend and his GF at the bar a couple of days ago. She brought her roommate and BF. the roommate pulled me aside later on and we started making out. On the walk back, we both had our hands around each others waist. The BF (6'4" athletic law school student) was following behind with our group. Talking to my buddy the next morning, they both believed they were the one.

 

[visions]

Damn bro. Thats crazy. Thats fvcked up that she called him while you fingered her. I think I would stopped and have left right there.

same here

 

[zinc4]

Just out of curiosity: to what would you attribute her calling you bad boy?

Probably a number of things...pretty much all of the girls i bed say stuff like that about me...or make comments like that...also, i banged one of her friends about year ago (coincidence...she mentioned her to me and said she had reckonized me from the past) and we had some pretty crazy sex as well...i am sure her friend has told her she is lucky...not to be conceded or anything...

 

[zinc4]

same here

Yeah, but it felt exciting at the moment and she had some big orgasms right after she hung up and then i busted on her face and breasts....one of those things that felt so good at the moment kind of like banging a girl's brains out with her parents in a room right next to her's....that sort of thing... but then you are saying that was a little messed up afterwards.

 

[coochieman]

Story:
He drove us around all day long. He came in the room with us and had a 30 minute chat with his girlfriend, then he joked about how naughty my cousin had been over recent times! I told him I would handle her if she gets naughty like I used to, when we were young. We all laughed then he left.

She showed no remorse afterwards.

We were not cousins. I was there for sex.
They are [maybe happily, don't know] married now with a daughter.

I felt sorry but I appreciate experiencing that.
One of my most enlightening with the opposite sex.
I don't trust hoes.
I don't even consider "trusting" anybody.