"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MR MIZUN0

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Well being a senior in HS, alot of my bros are in college. They party often, they have their own house, so I decided to stay the night and see what college parties are all about. Well I was in for a surprise....my former classmates (all the cute girls) showed up, and it was very interesting to see them. There were about 25 people there, with about 50/50 guy to girl. So after getting a little tipsy, I see "Jess" run downstairs and into the bathroom just balling her eyes out, so a few of her friends go over to her, and do all that advice stuff. After a few more brews Jess appears somehow as my pong partner. So I was getting my kino in with her, and she said: I am never coming back to this place again. I responded with: that's too bad cause then I will never see you again, and cant party with you, and she replied....well we still can hangout sometime.

Shortly after that everyone went to sleep and I slept in my bros room on the floor, and then "Jess" walks in, and just lies down next to me. (I did not act, and simply went to sleep, just some more kino, but nothing went on b/t me and her)

The morning I found out that one of my bros had her in his room, and was about to tap her, but she just freaked on him (cause he said something that he wants a relationship etc, and that he just doesn't want a **** buddy) and that is when she started to cry and all those shenanigans.

She has a rep. of getting around etc. But Im sure she freaked on my bro cause he simply tried to go too far in one night with her.

Do I still have a chance of snagging her? How do I get her back to my bros house to party it up? (Make sure the bro that freaked her out doesn't show? He doesn't live there)

Another issue I had was that towards the end of the night, all the bros I never met ended up like we were brothers, yet the ladies were just "there" except for "Jess"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MR MIZUN0 said:
Well being a senior in HS, alot of my bros are in college. They party often, they have their own house, so I decided to stay the night and see what college parties are all about. Well I was in for a surprise....my former classmates (all the cute girls) showed up, and it was very interesting to see them. There were about 25 people there, with about 50/50 guy to girl. So after getting a little tipsy, I see "Jess" run downstairs and into the bathroom just balling her eyes out, so a few of her friends go over to her, and do all that advice stuff. After a few more brews Jess appears somehow as my pong partner. So I was getting my kino in with her, and she said: I am never coming back to this place again. I responded with: that's too bad cause then I will never see you again, and cant party with you, and she replied....well we still can hangout sometime.

Shortly after that everyone went to sleep and I slept in my bros room on the floor, and then "Jess" walks in, and just lies down next to me. (I did not act, and simply went to sleep, just some more kino, but nothing went on b/t me and her)This is where you blew it. Never forget this: You only get one shot when it comes to girls, and this was it. She wanted to get with you but instead you decided to just sleep.

The morning I found out that one of my bros had her in his room, and was about to tap her, but she just freaked on him (cause he said something that he wants a relationship etc, and that he just doesn't want a **** buddy) and that is when she started to cry and all those shenanigans.

She has a rep. of getting around etc. But Im sure she freaked on my bro cause he simply tried to go too far in one night with her.

Do I still have a chance of snagging her? How do I get her back to my bros house to party it up? (Make sure the bro that freaked her out doesn't show? He doesn't live there)How bout instead of doing that, you simply just tell her you want to hang out sometime. Seems to me like she didnt really enjoy the party at all.

Another issue I had was that towards the end of the night, all the bros I never met ended up like we were brothers, yet the ladies were just "there" except for "Jess"Huh? I dont understand this at all
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EDIT: I personally cant stand girls like this. Its easy to tell which ones are just attention wh*res and love drama cuz theyre always the ones crying at parties and being annoyin.
 

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Yeah she did not like the party at all because of that little incident. I dont feel like she is an attention *****, but thats just me. When she was next to me, we were obviously both a touch tipsy (nothing over the top) and being my first time being actually drunk, I had all these thoughts going through my head....put your arm around her and stuff like that, but I just couldn't pull the trigger. To be honest I dont think I am ready to do the dirty, but at the same time I just want to do it.

I knew I blew it when she was next to me, and I didnt act on it, but you learn something new every day, next party....next chick....next experience.
 

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Yeah she did not like the party at all because of that little incident. I dont feel like she is an attention *****, but thats just me. When she was next to me, we were obviously both a touch tipsy (nothing over the top) and being my first time being actually drunk, I had all these thoughts going through my head....put your arm around her and stuff like that, but I just couldn't pull the trigger. To be honest I dont think I am ready to do the dirty, but at the same time I just want to do it.

I knew I blew it when she was next to me, and I didnt act on it, but you learn something new every day, next party....next chick....next experience.
Yea use it as a learnin experience. And usually when you drink you're wayyy more open with chicks, so you prolly didnt drink enough to get to that point. Whenever im drunk i dont have ANY of the thoughts you described going thru my head I just do what I want and dont care about it lol
 
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