"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was considering making our already free Ebook more accessible to readers.

My idea was to have a narrator/orator read the book in "talking head" type on camera and posting this on YouTube on our channel. Right now our channel is not useful to our readers but our book is thorough and read regularly. The idea it to broaden the reach to our end-user - you.

The idea would be to turn each page into a YouTube clip of about 1-2 minutes in length. You could browse the videos on YouTube or read along with the ebook. All free of course.

My question to you is would you subscribe to the channel and "watch"/listen to the book in this format more than say, having to read it yourself. These clips could be clicked and then you could do something else or whatever will listening passively.

Any and all thoughts appreciated.

You can see the book here: http://bodylanguageproject.com/the-only-book-on-body-language-that-everybody-needs-to-read/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pook speaks on bodylanguage, theres posts here about it and articles, also google has helped me.
 
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Are people still reading Definitive Book Of Body Language?

BLP covers everything covered there for free. We have a huge section on dating body language. We reach about 50k/year, but would like to grow our readership. So suggestions welcome.

Table of contents is here: http://bodylanguageproject.com/the-only-book-on-body-language-that-everybody-needs-to-read/

This is FREE btw. However, to keep it free we need to grow our readership.

If the book was narrated to you through YouTube clips, would you be more likely to consume it? Is it worth our effort?

I know the attention span of media is a small as a gnat now-a-days :) so we're strongly looking into the narration option right now.


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Chapter 13 – Courtship Signals

Introduction
Why Men Don’t Seem To Get It And Why Women Are Half The Problem
It’s A Women’s Job To Attract Attention
The Most Common Female Sexual Signals
She Displays Submissively, Sexually, Gets Closer And Builds Rapport
Tibial Torsion And Shoulder Shrugs To Appear Childlike
Wrist And Neck Exposures
Smiling, The Forehead Bow And Childlike Playfulness
Sexual Hair Play
The Hip Tilt and Parade, The Hip-To-Waist Radio, Breasts and Buttocks
The Room Encompassing Glance
Grooming And Preening
The Leg Twine And Leg Crossing
Hiking The Skirt And Showing Skin
Loving Tight Jeans, Short Skirts And Ornamentation
Proximity, Pointing And Touching
Echoing And Mirroring Is The Mating Dance
Kiss Test And Stages In Intimacy
How Women Can Avoid Solicitation By Men:
Gaze avoidance
Gestures
Posture patterns
He Displays Dominantly, Sexually, Gets Closer And Builds Rapport – Introduction
How Men Display Interest – An Introduction And Further Reading
The Male Crotch Display
Eliminating Beta Male Body Language
Dominant Body Language
The Dominant Male Stance
How Men Can Use Negative Body Language
Tonality Advice For Men
Smiling And Gazing Advice For Men
How Men Should Gaze
The Ten Steps To Intimacy
Summary
 

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I would listen instead of reading but you have to condence info to make it YouTube worthy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dgwizdal said:
I would listen instead of reading but you have to condense info to make it YouTube worthy
Good suggestion. I have produced a beta version of the book "The Tiny Book Of Body Language."

It's not linked into the main site yet so this is the only real way to get to it:

http://bodylanguageproject.com/tiny-book-of-body-language/a-body-language-primer/

You can click forward or backwards or through the table of contents.

It's 100 (half) pages long, condensed as much as possible from the main 300 page more wordy and more comprehensive book. "The only book on body language you will ever need to read."

Does that work for you?
 

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That e-book looks very good. Yes I'd definitely subscribe to your youtube chanel if you made the book into videos. I love this kind of stuff. Good work ! repped for your efforts...
 
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adam225 said:
That e-book looks very good. Yes I'd definitely subscribe to your youtube chanel if you made the book into videos. I love this kind of stuff. Good work ! repped for your efforts...
Thank you. We will continue to serve our readers but when going the free route, we need eyeballs, lots and lots of eyeballs.

Any suggestions welcome. We'd like to do more candid and higher production, but need to test stuff out first and grow a budget as it can be costly.

Keep it coming and send over your eyeballs!
 
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