"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feed me BI^CH

blackbelt2k

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As the title imples, looking for ideas on how to get the women we so most graciously give our time to..to cook for our approval... My last gf, got more than eager to cook for me when i let her come to the gym with me, showing her my diet.. She would always want to cook the dinners i had on my diet plan... but lately, I have given it really good to an older women i met, and in an effort to keep me at her place, she has offered to cook for me ( again i mentioned to this woman, that i had to go home after sex to eat, as it was part of my diet).. so i guess showing them that you value what goes into your body, makes them seek approval...what do you guys have to say?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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maybe im old fashioned or because im from the heart of dixie, i dunno, but i was raised that the way into a guys heart was thru his belly.
apparently, they arent raising girls like that anymore....
 
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