"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
fed up.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I wanted to point out that this is a good point, prosemount, and I wanted to add a little bit to it.
This board was my first "health and fitness" board, and the first board that introduced me to it. Why did I take so long to go actually look at other boards???
Simple, this board is small (H&F, relatively).
I really enjoy the fact that the pages don't cycle faster than you can read because there's a million guys posting. The threads are easy to follow, easy to keep up with, and it's very personable. Having this smallish community makes it very easy to learn, and you can read the threads without being intimidated by a 100 page thread.
It doesn't really take that long to read the entire bulking guide, or cutting guide, and there's a lot of good info in there.
Other posts?? They'll get a GOOD reply on this board in a matter of a day or so, and the "experienced" guys will probably chime in, and that will give people something to go off of.
I haven't seen any extremely long rants or threads on this board that actually went on as discussions for a long time, and for a H&F board, I think this is a great one. Especially when you have people contributing who know what they're doing - regardless of whether they're a fan of high volume or low volume.
Roling your eyes at me...well, semag, *cough* if you haven't realized it yet, most people here don't even know the basics. These links are ocourse directed to those who acually lift weights. If you look at the first page, thats what most people in h+f ask about. The info here is limited. Im not talking about actually hanging out at the bb.com forum. Im talking about reading articles that explains the basics in a very good way. The basics of nutrition, supplyment, training and the understanding of different methods in training. Atleast they'll know the basics from reading the info on the links. After that, forums like elite fitness and many others will be a better choise. But bb.com is a good place for the basics since they have articles on the basics. But you probobly knew that anywayssemag said:*cough* a noob site like that is great for noobs, yes.
Their teen forum knows more than the h+f forum."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
Yeah its just scary all these people saying they wnat to be so huge, and posting all those pics of pro bodybuilders, oh and 1 thing sickens me more then that, have you seen those guys that over do there lats! They got normal arms and chest, but there lats actualy make there upper body look like a large triangle, and i do not mean that in a good way!fireguy said:goals may be different, but methods stay the same
reyalp
Master Don Juan
who's going to kick these noobs asses into shape now?
we need to at least get the mods involved so you can post a "Read this or STFU " sticky. one last piece of wisdom to pass on to the DJs.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The_Lifter
Don Juan
I haven't seen any particularly advanced information here either.semag said:*cough* a noob site like that is great for noobs, yes.