"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fed up with some people on sosuave

ducaro

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sorry

but some guys here are simply daft!

we have all problems with women.. and we are trying to secure solutions

but some men out here think that we (men) are to be blamed for each and everything!! - if she loses interest, or if she stops giving head..or if she cheats.. or if she that or this .. its all OUR fault! what junk!!!!!

the fact is this world is filled with bastards and *****es! If women are complaining that men are this and that.. the the fact is YOU (WOMAN) have been unfortunate and landed a low life creature... its not your fault! (may be it was your fault that you did not 'screen' the person properly in the first place..)

and when some guys complain (like me) that this/that woman has done this/ that.. then she is a low life trampy *****! it is not our fault.. we just move on and find some decent people!

yes its all about confidence and other things in men.. but sometimes even your so called 'don juans' are victims! we all know that!

the truth is we MEN will from time to time come across stupid, daft, trampy women.. and that doesnt mean its our fault!! we have respect for ourselves and we walk away.. thats a man.. not trying to hone our so called dating skills. the only skill i have learnt from sosuave is confidence. nothing else.

remember.. when having a long term relationship with someone.. it needs two hands to clap. you as a man cannot constantly be 'winning' her everyday.. if there is a problem.. she needs to be supportive and help the both of you. if not, she is not worth it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I concur wholeheartedly! :up:

If a woman doesn't want you then move on to the next chick - don't take it personal. I don't like 99$ of the women out there so I can be sure that 99% don't like me - so what! It's not my fault and it is not their fault - it just is!

If a woman loses interest in you then this means she has another guy - and sometimes it is you who they leave and sometimes it is you who is the "new" guy! There is no one to blame - this is how the pimp/hor game works - never try to get her back!
 

ducaro

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Last Man Standing said:
I concur wholeheartedly! :up:

If a woman doesn't want you then move on to the next chick - don't take it personal. I don't like 99$ of the women out there so I can be sure that 99% don't like me - so what! It's not my fault and it is not their fault - it just is!

If a woman loses interest in you then this means she has another guy - and sometimes it is you who they leave and sometimes it is you who is the "new" guy! There is no one to blame - this is how the pimp/hor game works - never try to get her back!
perfecto!

Just that i would never allow myself to ever be a 'new' guy cuz i know i am going in for a hoe! (meaning she is leaving somebody for me.. what a tramp!) this is where we separate oursleves from the silty pimps, and prove we are men of integrity. and if a woman leaves me for another guy, i should be happy that i will be getting new a p_ussy without having to cheat!! :D integrity again! MEN WIN.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I concur wholeheartedly! :up:

If a woman doesn't want you then move on to the next chick - don't take it personal. I don't like 99$ of the women out there so I can be sure that 99% don't like me - so what! It's not my fault and it is not their fault - it just is!

If a woman loses interest in you then this means she has another guy - and sometimes it is you who they leave and sometimes it is you who is the "new" guy! There is no one to blame - this is how the pimp/hor game works - never try to get her back!
I am impressed that I can give total :up: to a LMS post once again... :D

and that is worth repeting:

never try to get her back!
 

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If you find yourself getting into relationships and meeting the same results over and over again, then it is ALL YOUR FAULT. Sure there really are some low quality people out there and it's not ALWAYS your fault, but in the end a relationship goes to **** because of BOTH people, not just one or the other.

The idea behind the "it's YOUR fault" talk is that at the end of each failed relationship you NEED TO MAKE AN ASSESSMENT AT WHAT YOU DID TO CAUSE THIS. No, that doesn't make it your fault, but it will almost always be SOME OF your fault. If you don't grow from your failures, you will be doomed to repeat them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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