"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FED UP: It all ends NOW.

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Alright, im finally done....I am done being treated like the AFC, Beta-ish person I have always reverted to ever since I have been in high school. I have done half-assed attempts to try and gain game for working with women...i'm now 18 years old and I haven't kissed a girl since the 18th grade (im a senior in high school)

I'm a short guy who is very smart and I do maintain the scores/classes/grades in order to go to any university I want - so yes, i am smart... No - i don't have the best body but i do not have the worst either.

I have seen much "uglier' guys get with way hotter girls than me and then try to tell me about "leagues" and all of that bull****.

As of today I am making a pledge to be an alpha male - i will no longer do work for anyone else other than myself unless it somehow benefits me. I am done being an emotional tampon for girls to spew out their problems to and never even give me a consolation kiss on the cheek!

I am not only tired of not being able to have women in my life, but I am done with the crap that society has put me through in high school. Throughout the next few months until I graduate, I plan on becoming an alpha-male that is able to get with any woman he wants.

The old "Joe" is GONE - he's dead...he's gone, so yes...when my friends say "You have changed" i know it to be true.

The nice guy in me is dead and my outlook on women is dim and bleak as I have been used time after time again by women for their own gain of some kind (used me after their boyfriend broke up with them for a ride, called ME when they needed a ride home because of an abusive relationship, I EVEN STOOD UP FOR A GIRL WHO WAS IN A FIGHT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND I DIDNT EVEN SO MUCH AS GET A KISS)

No - I am done treating women like goddesses on a pedestal and I am ready to secure passage into the realms of power and the annals of being an alpha male. I am ready to hold my head high up everyday and disdain the people who do not respect me. I am willing to make all new friends if necessary - this is absolutely ridiculous. My shyness disappeared as soon as i had this epiphany yesterday.

My goals by the end of the year -
At least GET with a woman somehow...doesn't even need to be sex...i just want SOMETHING for all of this bull**** ive put up with in high school.

Hello girls, My name is Joe...i'm an ******* now...you killed the nice joe, he's dead. Should've thought twice because ALL (not just one) women have used me that have befriended me.

For too long I have put women on the pedestal...now it is my turn to step up and have them think of ME as the prize.

I have a 4.0 GPA, prospects to major colleges, and a stable future...something that most people in my area DONT have.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hahaha another post talking about how ones going to change.... month later and nothing different!

if you were really going to do this u wouldnt have typed out that novel, trying to convince everyone that you'll change
 

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DamHE said:
hahaha another post talking about how ones going to change.... month later and nothing different!

if you were really going to do this u wouldnt have typed out that novel, trying to convince everyone that you'll change
im NOT going to convince everyone...im going to show them :)

i even need to convince myself that this is indeed happening.

change is in the future :)
 

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i see what you are doing... writing down your thoughts so that you finally acknowledge all that you want to change. in high school, i wrote a list of what i didn't like about my life and what i wanted and hung it on my wall. it was a motivational tool - reminded me everyday to keep working at it.

now i'm on the dean's list and am loving my life.

get to it my man! all the best to you.
 

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whats an AFC and where can i learn all these terms you guys use??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Even though I've been doing this whole DJ stuff for a few months seriously now, that link was really helpful. thanks.

and its good that you're trying to change your life man. I hope that you're one of the men who 'gets' it, and not one of thsoe guys who comes to this site and claims to change but never does.
 

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UPDATE - After my life changing epiphany i went out to a party (for the first time in about 2 years) and was able to number close 4 people and my phone wont stop getting texts.

Hopefully i can close one of these 4 different girls :)

(I wouldve gamed last night but the effing party had a huge fight and like everyone left)
 
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