"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FED UP: It all ends NOW.

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Alright, im finally done....I am done being treated like the AFC, Beta-ish person I have always reverted to ever since I have been in high school. I have done half-assed attempts to try and gain game for working with women...i'm now 18 years old and I haven't kissed a girl since the 18th grade (im a senior in high school)

I'm a short guy who is very smart and I do maintain the scores/classes/grades in order to go to any university I want - so yes, i am smart... No - i don't have the best body but i do not have the worst either.

I have seen much "uglier' guys get with way hotter girls than me and then try to tell me about "leagues" and all of that bull****.

As of today I am making a pledge to be an alpha male - i will no longer do work for anyone else other than myself unless it somehow benefits me. I am done being an emotional tampon for girls to spew out their problems to and never even give me a consolation kiss on the cheek!

I am not only tired of not being able to have women in my life, but I am done with the crap that society has put me through in high school. Throughout the next few months until I graduate, I plan on becoming an alpha-male that is able to get with any woman he wants.

The old "Joe" is GONE - he's dead...he's gone, so yes...when my friends say "You have changed" i know it to be true.

The nice guy in me is dead and my outlook on women is dim and bleak as I have been used time after time again by women for their own gain of some kind (used me after their boyfriend broke up with them for a ride, called ME when they needed a ride home because of an abusive relationship, I EVEN STOOD UP FOR A GIRL WHO WAS IN A FIGHT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND I DIDNT EVEN SO MUCH AS GET A KISS)

No - I am done treating women like goddesses on a pedestal and I am ready to secure passage into the realms of power and the annals of being an alpha male. I am ready to hold my head high up everyday and disdain the people who do not respect me. I am willing to make all new friends if necessary - this is absolutely ridiculous. My shyness disappeared as soon as i had this epiphany yesterday.

My goals by the end of the year -
At least GET with a woman somehow...doesn't even need to be sex...i just want SOMETHING for all of this bull**** ive put up with in high school.

Hello girls, My name is Joe...i'm an ******* now...you killed the nice joe, he's dead. Should've thought twice because ALL (not just one) women have used me that have befriended me.

For too long I have put women on the pedestal...now it is my turn to step up and have them think of ME as the prize.

I have a 4.0 GPA, prospects to major colleges, and a stable future...something that most people in my area DONT have.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hahaha another post talking about how ones going to change.... month later and nothing different!

if you were really going to do this u wouldnt have typed out that novel, trying to convince everyone that you'll change
 

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DamHE said:
hahaha another post talking about how ones going to change.... month later and nothing different!

if you were really going to do this u wouldnt have typed out that novel, trying to convince everyone that you'll change
im NOT going to convince everyone...im going to show them :)

i even need to convince myself that this is indeed happening.

change is in the future :)
 

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i see what you are doing... writing down your thoughts so that you finally acknowledge all that you want to change. in high school, i wrote a list of what i didn't like about my life and what i wanted and hung it on my wall. it was a motivational tool - reminded me everyday to keep working at it.

now i'm on the dean's list and am loving my life.

get to it my man! all the best to you.
 

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whats an AFC and where can i learn all these terms you guys use??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Even though I've been doing this whole DJ stuff for a few months seriously now, that link was really helpful. thanks.

and its good that you're trying to change your life man. I hope that you're one of the men who 'gets' it, and not one of thsoe guys who comes to this site and claims to change but never does.
 

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UPDATE - After my life changing epiphany i went out to a party (for the first time in about 2 years) and was able to number close 4 people and my phone wont stop getting texts.

Hopefully i can close one of these 4 different girls :)

(I wouldve gamed last night but the effing party had a huge fight and like everyone left)
 
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