fear! State of Mind

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

cassanova35

Don Juan

Nov 7, 2010

Does this not make you think, you wish to attract that women but for some reason you start feeling nervous, sweaty and scared for some reason which leads to fear right?

But just before you saw that women you were fine, so my question is simple what made you turn towards fear?

was it the fact that you find the women attractive?, is that her sex appeal caught you off guard? what is it?

Because fear is a state of mind, you look at something or someone and beleive you cant do it or talk to that person, its a subconcious reaction, to something you like but are not sure of.