"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fear of reprisal

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I was talking to this girl from Bangladesh and she's with her 19 year old female friend. She told me her friend "has a man." Immediately, I stop pursuing her friend or trying to suggest we do any threesome stuff. Then I think WHY? What could this girls "man" possibly be like? A 19 year old kid? I suggest they have me over and let me pump my **** and fvck them both all night. They said they probably will. They think my implant is really cool.

This reminds me of Mystery (I think) who says that "Fear of Reprisal" is a reason for approach anxiety. In caveman times, the girls mate could come along and kill you for trying to get with his girl. It's still programmed in our brains. I'm scared of a 19 year old kid? Well... Maybe he's crazy. Lol. But more than likely, we will just keep the whole thing quiet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You couldnt combine your three threads about the bangaladesh girl into one?.
 
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