"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fear of flying

FinalWay

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lately i've come to notice that i have a fear of flying. i don't know where the fear came from as most people would say the same thing. does anybody else here have a fear of it? if you overcame that fear, how did you do it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have more a fear of flying now than I did when I was younger. I loved flying as a kid. Now it's something I wish I could avoid. I'm never at ease on a plane, I always feel jittery and it's impossible for me to sleep, even on long trans-oceanic flights. On very long flights like that I am absolutely miserable. I also hate turbulence, a lot. I can deal with flying since I've been doing it for so long, if I were just starting out now, I couldn't fathom it.

A few years back, me and a buddy flew to Hawaii for a wedding. He was in his late 20's and had never been on a plane in his life. I sat him at the window just for kicks. Looked like he was going to have a heart attack as we took off, lol. Once it smoothed out, he was fine.
 

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Used to get to me as well. Just did it enough where it doesnt bother me anymore. Turbulance is normal, so don't worry about it. I always take earplugs. That helps to this day. Also take along a video Ipod which I have tons of movies on. There is sofware out there you can get which allows you to download full length movies onto your Ipod from your computer. If anyone is interested, go to slysoft.com. Point being, if you are watching a movie, or listening to music, it helps take your mind off of the flight.
 

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speakeasy said:
I have more a fear of flying now than I did when I was younger. I loved flying as a kid. Now it's something I wish I could avoid.

funny you say that because i flew on a helicopter when i was a kid and it didnt even bother for a second. it probably would of been the same if i was on a plane. but lately over the years i've notice the fear and paranoia start to sink in due to certain things happening like the recent attempt attack on xmas and other situations.
 

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I have a fear of flying as well....The way I plan to fight it, is take a short flight anywhere just to see that there is nothing to worry about.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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