"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fear of approach, this works for me!

Demonicale

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Ok many may recognize my username, many won't.

I've been on these forums for a long time. I've had alot of success and alot of failure. But my main problem was approaching women.

Recently i stumbled on an article about the "numbers game". Now before all of those reading this who know how to approach, don't knock this for those of you who can't/won't.

Anyway after reading many many posts/articles etc on the numbers game i stepped out into the real world. WHAT A DIFFERENCE it was in one night. I went from being shy to laughing and going up to groups of women with NO FEAR.

I'd changed my whole perspective of talking to women. We shouldn't be worried about the outcome everytime. We shouldn't over plan EVERYTHING. All we need to do is to talk to as many women as we can without overthinking it. The numbers game is about the law of averages says your meet someone to lay, be your girlfriend whatever you want.

But it's more about stripping away your fear one approach at a time. READ up on the numbers game and like me it will give you the extra push you need guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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