"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fear keeps people loyal

Dirtheart

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Fear keeps people loyal. If they are afraid they have something to lose, they'll do what you tell them to do.

This is a paraphrased quote from The Godfather and is most certainly applicable to a Don Juan.

If you want a woman to be loyal to you, you have to make her believe she has something to lose and then instill in her the fear of losing it.

It's harsh, but it's true.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Omega

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
Fear keeps people loyal. If they are afraid they have something to lose, they'll do what you tell them to do.

This is a paraphrased quote from The Godfather and is most certainly applicable to a Don Juan.

If you want a woman to be loyal to you, you have to make her believe she has something to lose and then instill in her the fear of losing it.

It's harsh, but it's true.
Yea, me.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Also found in "The Prince" by Niccolo Macchiavelli.

Yea, I butchered his name.
you sure did :D
 
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