f'd a girl with a boyfriend

[imarockstar]

so i talked this girl from my work into coming over and hanging out after a wknd of dirty texts from her. got her over last night and f*cked her brains out. the bad thing is she has a boyfriend. shes also going a couple states away to school in the fall. im so confused. this **** sucks, seems like every girl i have casual sexual encounters with i become attracted to and start to catch feelings. shes only the 2nd girl ive actually f*cked, (i was in a 4 yr relationship), and was my first one night stand. how do you dj's get past this. how do you not like every girl you have sex with. she texts me all the time, earlier today even. i just sent her one a min ago and its been an hour and a half, i feel like im gettin ignored. haha i sound like a bytch, but this is all so new to me. how do you avoid catching feelings while still having casual sex, because obviously this girl is not girlfriend worthy since shes a cheater. but i cant stop thinking about her, aghhh im such a pus. any advice would b appreciated dudes

 

[Joe Stud]

Those feelings are normal for many of us my friend. Fight it. Hit the bars, etc... sarge more chicks. Thats the answer... experience.
Also with this plate...dont text her until she texts you first. Keep her chasing you. You are "the forbidden fruit"! Enjoy it until she leaves town, no sense burning a bridge. 6 months from now you may feel like a "road trip" and you can grab her for some fun. Experience.

 

[imarockstar]

cool glad to see everyone has this problem at their early stages of being a man wh*re haha. can't really say i was bummed about her not texting me, i was just bummed bc that meant i was gettin laid by her again. ha an hour after i made this post she text me telling me how she wanted it and asking how i like it and how she wants to be handcuffed lol. superfreak. oh and trust me i know the text game rules. i usually let the girl send me the first text/call of the day. then i might hit her up later, but if i dont hear from her i never text twice in a row. works really well. being desperate is sin to me and i never let a girl think for a second that i need her or give her any idea that im desperate. thanks guys, good advice. looks like im gettin my d*ck wet again sometime this week she just asked to hang out again

 

[Scars]

I love fvcking girls with boyfriends because then you don't have to date them (sometimes) because they already have a boyfriend. Although, you do know the more you fvck her the more the chance of her getting attached and leading to potential drama down the road.

 

[Bible_Belt]

There's only one of her. But there's an endless supply of the same type as her.

 

[DonGorgon]

One mans ho is another mans houswife/daughter/mom/sister etc etc.. its natures way..lol

 

[shaunuk]

Everyone's felt something like this before. And at least you realise you're being a pvssy.

Obviously you know she's not "gf material" due to what she did (or does regularly...). You can hit it again, but over time, you'll stop thinking about her so much. Time..

 

[Commandante]

I love fvcking girls with boyfriends because then you don't have to date them (sometimes) because they already have a boyfriend.

How often do you get beaten up when the boyfriend finds out what you are doing? Or how do you avoid this, I mean what do you do to push the b*tch not to tell who you are?

 

[Sandow]

You're still an AFC. You must change now. Read the DJ Bible and evolve!

 

[Duffdog]

How often do you get beaten up when the boyfriend finds out what you are doing? Or how do you avoid this, I mean what do you do to push the b*tch not to tell who you are?

The chances are he will NEVER get beat up by any of the boyfriends ever. All the girls I fvck have boyfriends who are punk-azz chumps. I have been introduced as "my friend Duffdog" and met most of the boyfriends as well. The girls will go to great lengths to construct lies which back up their story of how the guy they are actually fvcking is "just a friend." Come to think of it, I don't know any hot girls who are faithful...I think its just what you get to do when you are an attractive girl. The sad part is, I know the guys...the alpha type guys do the same thing back, but the beta guys actually believe that their girl isn't cheating on them.

 

[Scars]

The chances are he will NEVER get beat up by any of the boyfriends ever. All the girls I fvck have boyfriends who are punk-azz chumps. I have been introduced as "my friend Duffdog" and met most of the boyfriends as well. The girls will go to great lengths to construct lies which back up their story of how the guy they are actually fvcking is "just a friend." Come to think of it, I don't know any hot girls who are faithful...I think its just what you get to do when you are an attractive girl. The sad part is, I know the guys...the alpha type guys do the same thing back, but the beta guys actually believe that their girl isn't cheating on them.

Sadly, Duff is right. Most guys won't do a damn thing. I've gotten death threats before, had people say they were going to come after me, but they never do. Infact it's quite funny when I run into them in public because they totally b!tch up and don't know what to do, and I'm actually very small dude. They probably just go home and cry about it. If you think about it, do you think a guy is really going to round up his homies and say "Yeah, that little punk STOLE my girlfriend and ****ed her. Let's jump him." do you know how ridiculous that sounds? Most of these guys have too much "pride" and will go to lengths to make it seem like he left her and not the other way around. However, must of the time the girl is on my side, and as duff said they will also lie for you. They don't want to take the risk of looking like a ho so they make it seem like you're just a friend and doing nothing wrong.

 

[Furyguy]

Word. Agree with everything that's been said so far. This in particular:

Those feelings are normal for many of us my friend. Fight it. Hit the bars, etc... sarge more chicks.

 

[The Muscle Guy]

Sadly, Duff is right. Most guys won't do a damn thing. I've gotten death threats before, had people say they were going to come after me, but they never do. Infact it's quite funny when I run into them in public because they totally b!tch up and don't know what to do, and I'm actually very small dude. They probably just go home and cry about it. If you think about it, do you think a guy is really going to round up his homies and say "Yeah, that little punk STOLE my girlfriend and ****ed her. Let's jump him." do you know how ridiculous that sounds? Most of these guys have too much "pride" and will go to lengths to make it seem like he left her and not the other way around. However, must of the time the girl is on my side, and as duff said they will also lie for you. They don't want to take the risk of looking like a ho so they make it seem like you're just a friend and doing nothing wrong.

Prison is filled with guys that had cheating girlfriends.

 

[handle]

It always surprises me that some guys' first reactions when they hear their girl has been cheating is to go after the dude she's been fvcking... Don't they have bigger problems like, you know, being with someone who knowingly cheated on them?

 

[Kal0051]

It always surprises me that some guys' first reactions when they hear their girl has been cheating is to go after the dude she's been fvcking... Don't they have bigger problems like, you know, being with someone who knowingly cheated on them?

bingo, they should thank you instead of getting pissed at you, because if she didn't do it with you she would have done it with someone else.

 

[WhtRbt]

Soon you will have so many girls after you you couldn't possibly get attached to any one of them.

 

[SleepyRangerMedic82D]

I think its awesome you got your second piece of a$$ dude, but man why someone in a relationship? I mean I know she made the decision to do it, and you probably feel like the "better" man for banging the hell out of a girl with a boyfriend, but it's not right.

There are TONS of chicks who are single.. Like TONS, why hit one that has a bf? I dunno man, I can just tell you from experience it doesn't feel very good to be that other guy.. Now granted, I can tell you that I know why it happened to me, but still dude.. I would seriously recommend staying away from another guys woman.

Just my .02 cents on the subject..

 

[Kal0051]

I think its awesome you got your second piece of a$$ dude, but man why someone in a relationship? I mean I know she made the decision to do it, and you probably feel like the "better" man for banging the hell out of a girl with a boyfriend, but it's not right.

There are TONS of chicks who are single.. Like TONS, why hit one that has a bf? I dunno man, I can just tell you from experience it doesn't feel very good to be that other guy.. Now granted, I can tell you that I know why it happened to me, but still dude.. I would seriously recommend staying away from another guys woman.

Just my .02 cents on the subject..

hmm, the morality police :crackup: . Honestly, as long as the OP wasn't looking at this girl as LTR material and her bf wasn't one of his friends I don't really see the problem. She's the one that cheated, it's not like the OP brainwashed her or raped her, she made the conscious decision to cheat. And if she didn't do it with him she would definitely have done it with someone else, that's just the type of girl she is.

 

[BlackJackal]

Sadly, Duff is right. Most guys won't do a damn thing. I've gotten death threats before, had people say they were going to come after me, but they never do. Infact it's quite funny when I run into them in public because they totally b!tch up and don't know what to do, and I'm actually very small dude. They probably just go home and cry about it. If you think about it, do you think a guy is really going to round up his homies and say "Yeah, that little punk STOLE my girlfriend and ****ed her. Let's jump him." do you know how ridiculous that sounds? Most of these guys have too much "pride" and will go to lengths to make it seem like he left her and not the other way around. However, must of the time the girl is on my side, and as duff said they will also lie for you. They don't want to take the risk of looking like a ho so they make it seem like you're just a friend and doing nothing wrong.

he's right. and even if they did try to get you. thats what a guns for. You get swish cheesed up tryin to kill me over a ho.

 

[Duffdog]

I think its awesome you got your second piece of a$$ dude, but man why someone in a relationship? I mean I know she made the decision to do it, and you probably feel like the "better" man for banging the hell out of a girl with a boyfriend, but it's not right.

There are TONS of chicks who are single.. Like TONS, why hit one that has a bf? I dunno man, I can just tell you from experience it doesn't feel very good to be that other guy.. Now granted, I can tell you that I know why it happened to me, but still dude.. I would seriously recommend staying away from another guys woman.

Just my .02 cents on the subject..

That is a very feminine way of thinking. Every girl that guys want has a boyfriend already. Even if she doesn't consider him a boyfriend, you can bet that he does. Attractive girls get approached by men all the time, so there is very little chance that an attractive female does not have a male somewhere in her life. Sure, she might claim to be single, but we all know that if the girl likes you, she says she is single and if she doesn't, she says she has a boyfriend. It is the responsibility of the male to sniff out your girlfriend cheating...if you can't do it or turn a blind eye to it, its your fault.

It is my personal opinion that all the dateable girls are already taken and if you want one, you have to steal her away. Which, should not be a problem if you are a superior male anyways.