fccked up twice i need help

[mackdaddy27]

I am on on newbie
I went to watch a movie with this chick at her place she sits on the other end of the sofa so im thinking she doesnt want to be touched. We talk for few hours and i leave. Next day she calls me and says "why didnt you ask me to sit next to you or move towards me. Are you attracted to me ? " I tell her. She is my long term and dont want to risk something pretty fccken afc i know but what can you can answer on on question like that with. That you werent any alpha. Anyway we make another date for next date to see on on movie. I meet her and this time she is sitting in the same location on the sofa. She starts to prod me saying stuff like "so why did you want to see me today?" "About what we discussed yesterday about sitting on the sofa" i just work up the courage to begin kino i didnt know where to begin and i just thought lets just get this day over with as my confidence and alpha started to lower. I just kept takibg shot after shot until i felt drunk and i left her place saying give me on on call tomorrow . So disappionted in myself. Any advice guys ?

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Change of venue....... Try again, but don't go back to that same couch. Go out....go to the movies.....go anywhere-- but not back to that couch. She's being pretty clear that she likes you and wants you, so what do you have to loose?
Think of yourself as moving at your own speed. This is supposed to be fun, and you're having fun at your own speed. If you think that way, you will be more relaxed. Everything is alright.
Just take it ONE STEP AT A TIME....it will become easier that way.

 

[Mavrick]

I can see in your post that you don't have the concepts down and you are nervous about making a mistake and blowing it. If you are the one coming into the situation with the value to offer, then you won't make a mistake. Let her be the one who blows it with you. You've got it all backwards and twisted.

You can't apologize for being a man and wanting something more sexual and sensual. That's why you make the move. The more scared you are, the less likely it will happen. The more you worry about her the more you're going to fear. You have to be proactive, not reactive to her.

Take charge and go for what you want or you won't ever get it.

 

[DJDamage]

Make a move already.

She is wondering why the fvck you arrange for a date but don't want to touch her?!

You should kino her and go for it. Right now she is thinking you are wasting her time when you don't want to touch her. If you reverse that and touch her and she wouldn't reciprecate then you would realise that SHE IS THE ONE THAT IS WASTING YOUR TIME, and you need to look elsewhere for a woman.

Its a win-win situation when you kino her.

 

[DonGorgon]

Change of venue....... Try again, but don't go back to that same couch. Go out....go to the movies.....go anywhere-- but not back to that couch. She's being pretty clear that she likes you and wants you, so what do you have to loose?
Think of yourself as moving at your own speed. This is supposed to be fun, and you're having fun at your own speed. If you think that way, you will be more relaxed. Everything is alright.
Just take it ONE STEP AT A TIME....it will become easier that way.

Good advice..

 

[Prodigy746]

I am pretty sure you could have F closed this chick the same night. You need to sit next to her and start kissing her TRUST ME

 

[mackdaddy27]

I am pretty sure you could have F closed this chick the same night. You need to sit next to her and start kissing her TRUST ME

Your trusted. I will try that and get back to you