"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FB break up shows up to my work.what now?

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Ok I was at work and as I posted recent post. I see ex FB friend w Ex FB or what seems to be her.

She actually showed up at my work today 2 pm with her friend that works there and I saw her.

She looked kind of scared but I politely said Hi and told her I wanted to talk to her privately.

It was hard to go somewhere private but I apologized for telling her all that stuff and told her it was nice to see her. And that there was no hard feelings.
Its not a big deal.

she said "are you sure?,cause you are a good doctor and a good actor."

I smiled and said I understand.whatever.( I acted unreactive uneedy unemotional)

She instantly made out with me.

I felt strange but relieved that It was over, my anger went away.

I felt FREE !!!

She told me to call her.

I said I changed my number.

I didnt give her my new number and neither she ask for it.

I left it at that. I said goodbye and gave her a hug.

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Her friend saw me later and she was talking with someone from work.

That someone from work told me that ex FB is seeing some guy that is prob married and that she likes him.
She kept saying that I was her boytoy that she could have me whenever and whatever she wanted from me.she said she didnt want me to see other girls and she wanted me to be her backup.

When this lady told me this ,

I was unreactive since, I m seeing that Its all of this is a Game,
a Losing Game and a waste of my time.

Some guys said FB doesnt matter the rules but this smells too bad that I can't stand it anymore.

**** this!

EJECT!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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COD

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huh?

is there a question in all of this jibberish?
 

broken dreams

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yeah read fb break up, she showed up at my work.

disrespectful showing up

talking **** about me

she has issues.

do I have to do everything?
 

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Dear Broken Dreams,
Count yourself lucky mate....In my Turbulant youth,I had my Horny Land Ladies Husband turn up at work,he broke more than my dreams,when I was brave enough to venture home after seeking respite with a kind friend...The Mother Stuffer had turfed all my gear out and it was sitting(what was left of it)by the side of the Road outside his house....
 

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COD said:
huh?

is there a question in all of this jibberish?
well?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cooL ,,She is ****ing nuts showing up and now calling my other number.

Im sick and tired too much energy on this craszy ***** but came out on top.

I denied her my new number and Im hooking up with another biach.

I thought I was wrong , but I was blaming too much on myself for other peoples ****,

I dont agree that FB rules apply here because she broke them a long time ago and NOW realize she is a crazy ***** with serious issues.

I will have to start a screening process or somethin'.
THANK YOU!!
 

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so much drama over a FB. Perhaps we need to redefine her as a oneitis.
 

broken dreams

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Well, You maybe right P E*.

I will not deny it, but I got control back to stop it. :)

Thanks to you guys help, I can move on...

This is my LAST POST on this "DeadEnder"



Now Let's party!
 

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I had a girl my friend had tried unsuccessfully to bang show up at my work in high school and tell my coworkers that I was an ass and that I owed her a $400 dollars in damage that I caused to her car. (Mc Donalds drive through.. she insulted me for no reason, I yelled fvck you back, took my supersize pop and threw it into her car through the open window.. blew up all over her, her friend, and her white car seats.. black guys in the car behind her were laughing.. anyways I was kinda perplexed too about what to do but in my case everyone ignored her and she eventually stopped coming by. We didn't contact her again and everything was cool.
 

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she keeps texting me at my old number,
trying to get me to go out w her inviting me to go out and
on sunday night she text me saying that she thought about me and missed me....I think she is full of ****.

I didnt respond, at all !

so its cool that its ****in over and Im moving on to other projects in my life.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey man , I got over this broad. Im finished. I m glad I came on top. she doesnt have my new number and has been trying hard to contact me this past weekend at my old number through texts and leaving voice messages.

Im done w this crazy ass woman. I was reading on this type of woman that she rejects you then wants to be with you then changes back and forth.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149794


I was confused but worse I had oneitis over the pvssy.So she manipulate that and withold sex. and went backwards.

my ride time was over and felt bad being rejected.

She shows up at my work I let it go and leave her hanging.

Best thing is to come on top on your terms with some self respect and dump it back in the trash.

I rather be the jerk than the NICE guy.
 
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