Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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at the moment I like 'Hey Man (Now You'Re Really Living)" by the Eels...

"Hey Man (Now You'Re Really Living)"

Do you know what it's like to fall on the floor
And cry your guts out 'til you got no more
Hey man now you're really living

Have you ever made love to a beautiful girl
Made you feel like it's not such a bad world
Hey man now you're really living

Now you're really giving everything
And you're really getting all you gave
Now you're really living what
This life is all about

Well i just saw the sun rise over the hill
Never used to give me much of a thrill
But hey man now you're really living

Do you know what it's like to care too much
'bout someone that you're never gonna get to touch
Hey man now you're really living

Have you ever sat down in the fresh cut grass
And thought about the moment and when it will pass
Hey man now you're really living

Now you're really giving everything
And you're really getting all you gave
Now you're really living what
This life is all about

Now what would you say if i told you that
Everyone thinks you're a crazy old cat
Hey man now you're really living

Do you know what it's like to fall on the floor
And cry your guts out 'til you got no more
Hey man now you're really living

Have you ever made love to a beautiful girl
Made you feel like it's not such a bad world
Hey man now you're really living

People sing
Do you know what it's like to fall on the floor
And cry your guts out 'til you got no more
Hey man now you're really living

Just saw the sun rise over the hill
Never used to give me much of a thrill
But hey man now i'm really living
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"The Die Is Cast" - Julius Caesar

after being the first General to defy the Roman law stating that no general can cross the Rubicon river with his army for fear of marching on Rome. It was a gamble and he knew the risk it ended up with him winning the Roman civil war and becoming Emperor for life, and having his name belong to the ages. Caesar was the man.
 

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"People talk about good and evil being as simple as black and white. But through closer inspection we should all realize there are only shades of gray in the world."

-beats me but somebody said it damn it.


"That which doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger."
--crowes
sorry crowes Nitche beat you to that one...but only by a few hundred years:D
 

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"Women are not people, they are devices created by the lord Jesus Christ for our entertainment." - Peter Griffen
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.
Love is like a butterfly, hold it too tight and it will crush, hold it too lightly and it will fly away.
Live each day as if it were your last.
Dont cry over your mistakes, LEARN from them.
A man takes responsibility for his actions, right or wrong, and accepts the consequence and lives with it, every day
I could go on forever, but here are a few that I can remember/think up at the moment.;)
And refer to my sig, those are good too.
 

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The only diff. between extacy and rape is salesmanship

... just an insightful quote I thought i'd leave. Those in sales will get the full hit of this message. It's a quote a friend though up during a VERY long shift of be-backs and returns. . .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
 

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"I suppose the best way to find out where you come from is to find out where you're going, and then work backwards."
 

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Originally posted by Mystic
"The Die Is Cast" - Julius Caesar

after being the first General to defy the Roman law stating that no general can cross the Rubicon river with his army for fear of marching on Rome.
uhm Caesar wasnt the first. Sulla was.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i can do anything through Christ Jesus my Savor
 

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"I'm too young to be sprung
Too blessed to be stressed
My move is too smooth
On top of that I dress to impress"
-Fabolous

"I don't love 'em, I f*ck 'em
I don't chase 'em, I duck 'em
I replace 'em with another one"
- Jay-Z

"It hurts but it works"
-Me
 

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"I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over again in my life, and that is why I succeed." - Michael Jordan

"If you are pained by external things, it is not they that disturb you, but your own judgement of them. And it’s in your power to wipe out that judgement now." - Marcus Aurelius
 

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"People who quit are just punks!"
- my 6-year old nephew
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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