"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Favorite Vacation destinations to meet chicks?

Naughty Ninja

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What are some or any of your favorite vacation destinations to meet/ hook up etc with chicks?

Florida Ft. Lauderdale area/Miami/Boca Loads of hot women all over the place. Pretty easy to meet chicks there.

Italy and Columbia: There is definately something to be said about women abroad. TONS AND TONS of hot chicks who are EASY to talk to and pretty intelligent with seemingly good heads on their shoulders.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vegas would have to be #1 without a doubt. All inhibitions fly out the window there. LA, Hollywood and any of the S Cal beach cities are good too.
 

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cordoncordon said:
Vegas would have to be #1 without a doubt. All inhibitions fly out the window there. LA, Hollywood and any of the S Cal beach cities are good too.

True. Forgot about them. Going to S. Cal and Vegas pretty soon. Vegas is INSANE. Been there three times already and Cali about five.
 

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I'm interested in these answers. I'm still working on my financial status, but once I'm where I'd like to be, traveling is definitely an interest of mine.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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