penkitten
Master Don Juan
yah its hard to list everything you like, perhaps i should have named albums instead 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Favorite Seattle Grunge band
- Thread starter mahon83050
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Alice, to be sure.
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
I think that if Kurt Cobain hadnt killed himself, nirvana would have been a lot more obscure.
AIC rule it for me, just for the darkness of the lyrics and the guitar playing.
I love Blind Melon, and i agree that Soup is a much better album.
AIC rule it for me, just for the darkness of the lyrics and the guitar playing.
I love Blind Melon, and i agree that Soup is a much better album.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
nirvana for me, they rule. second I would pick pearl jam, there still kicking ass.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.