"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Favorite height to date

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm 5'9" and I like them really petite like 4'11' - 5'2"

They just seem much more feminine.

They are hard to find here in the Midwest, and nothing turns me off more than a 6'3" 240 pound corn fed female. :down:
 

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6'1 here

Ive dated everything from 5'1 to 5'10.. nothing taller than the higher range of that variance.

Ive never slayed a fat chick before. but Im looking for one with a cute face to get that off my list. But typically I like to be with chicks that dont remind me of skeletor
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GS750 said:
I'm 6'0". I like them around 5'-5'4". I am not into tall women at all...not sure why.
Agreed and I'm the same height.

Really tall women look weird most of the time.

I'll go for a 5'7 chick but she better have at least a C cup.
 
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