TheAsianLoverReturns
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MartyMcFly said:Photoshop
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Welcome to the interwebz bro.gspshields2 said:so not only does the fattie expect us to overlook her weight problem, she also wants us to overlook how ugly /how much acne she has, how not eeven remotely cute she is?
Or describes her perfect first date in her profile, and spends most of the description talking about foodBlackMack177 said:3. Has food in her user name.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BlackMack177 said:9 times out of 10 if a chick does the following she is a fat chick:
1. Only has pictures of her face. Mostly at an angle or with the kissy face to make her face look thinner.
2. Breast or booty shots with no other part of her body showing. Fat chicks often take their best features and put them up so they can draw in attention while hiding the fact that they are 300 lbs. Not to mentio most fat girls have big t1tties that look pretty nice when perked up in her push up bra. don't fall for it it's a fat trap
3. Has food in her user name. Learned this from Tariq Nasheed but from what's i've seen 9/10 of the time it's true
4. Has old pics. You can't really tell this without asking, but most fat chicks will put up pics form when they were smaller in order to deceive males into thinking they are still as hot as they were in highschool. Don't fall for it. it's a fat trap
5. Has pics of a celebrity or anyone else but her on her profile. I don't care if trey songs is her dream man, if a chick isn't secure enough in her body to post her own picture then she is effed up or fat. This applies to family members to. Some girl will try to hide behind pictures of their hot friends/sisters in order to appear like a family girl but really they are just fat
6. only pics of her lips. Ties into number two. A lot of fat girls have nice lips
7. List her body type as "curvy, full figured, thick, or anything similar. Barring the honest fat chicks who say they "have a little extra weight" most fat chicks will try to sugar coat their weight by putting any of the least direct terms they can for it. Also be wary of the "average' body types. Sometimes they can downplay their weight as well. Hell, I've even run into and Athletic chick on okcupid who turned out to be bigger than I'd hoped....
It's best to just look at the pics when trying to get a feel for her, but just take note of the red flags. Most girls who are hot will have no problem showing you they are hot