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Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

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kickureface

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this is a nono, unless the goal is to get FAT, correct?

then how do you eat pb?? pb sandwhiches, pbj sandwiches, pb + milk + oatmeal, those are the only things i can think of. unless, pb on a banana, or pb in a pwo shake (which should contain protein and simple, high gi carbs) would be death, no?

then, WTF? eating it plain seems kinda uncomfortable, ive seen dogs with pb and its not good!

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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put peanut butter in your whey shakes, on celery, with a spoon out the jar..
 

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I'm eating PB plain and it's not bad at all. You'll need something to wash it down though. I just use water.

Also make sure you use Natty PB! I hear that partially hydrogenated or whatever is the worst you can get and I've seen that on a lot of PB.
 

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so does this mean that every meal, I have to decide weather I have fats or carbs? This would mean no eggs and bacon with avocado on toast, no spaghetti. no stir-fry on rice. WTF, no roast with sweet potato!
 

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if you're eating spaghetti, toast, white rice, and sweet potatos i wouldn't say you're all that concerned about fat gain anyway.
 

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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mrRuckus said:
if you're eating spaghetti, toast, white rice, and sweet potatos i wouldn't say you're all that concerned about fat gain anyway.
I'm not, but I don't want too much.

Didn't say anything anything about WHITE rice
 

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This is so confusing, How am I supposed to eat them with protein if I can't eat them with meat because thats fat.
 

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wolf116 said:
This is so confusing, How am I supposed to eat them with protein if I can't eat them with meat because thats fat.
meat isn't fat.. it has SOME fat. but you can eat lean meats with carbs. a little fat with carbs isn't a problem (say 10-15g maybe). So eat very lean meat with carbs and eat just vegetables with fattier meat.
 

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Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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sweet, if it wasn't for you WBA I wouldn't even post here.
 

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Wolf the point of not mixing fat and carbs i believe is because you don't want a lot of insulin going through your system right when you're eating a lot of fat. The carbs will be used as the primary fuel source of the moment and then the fat has no where to go but to be stored especially since the insulin is screaming to fat cells "store fat!"

And since insulin release is dependent on the type of carb AND the amount of carbs (glycemic index and glycemic load), it's okay to eat a little bit of carbs with fat as long as you do it in a way that's going to keep insulin fairly under control. So carbs in a pro/fat meal is okay, but don't make it a tablespoon of table sugar or a handful of Skittles.

Heh, skittles....Actually I cheat sometimes and eat some candy right after working out because I love candy and i figure it won't go to fat at this time and my damn mom keeps sending it to me for holidays despite my protests. My mommy loves me :)

Melted sweettarts sure hides the taste of CEE in a postworkout drink ;)

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Do i have this right?
 

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mrRuckus said:
Do i have this right?
pretty much, yeah. basically you're giving your body two sources of fuel at once, and the body will use one for energy (preferably carbs) and store the other.

a little fat in carb meals is okay, as long as it's not consciously added (i.e. something like eggs+egg whites plus oatmeal for breakfast as opposed to having steak and rice and adding olive oil/butter/cheese as well..)
 

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Good info *bump*
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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When I'm on my diet, I go high-fat, but I still eat some carbs. I still experience good gains, but I have an extremely high metabolism.

If your body metabolizes food fast, I think you can cheat on the carbs a little if you're going high-fat. I also do a lot of cardio - probably more than I should. I'm sure that helps bail me out of any unwanted results from my carb intake.
 

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future_strongguy said:
I mix fat and carbs with every meal and haven't had any problems.
depends on your goals / carb sensitivity / overall diet.
 

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agreed. i gave this entire **** up and just keep it low carb (no starches and sugars). then again i stopped obsessing over my bf% :p.
nice to see you still alive throttle!
 

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Throttle said:
depends on your goals / carb sensitivity / overall diet.
My goal is to gain weight, but I don't seem too sensitive to carbs. Every meal is fresh meat + fruits + vegetables + milk. The meat though is usually chicken breast or fish, both low on fat. I think I get most fat from milk.

I'm actually maintaining weight and losing fat. :cheer:
 

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isn't that good then!? :p
i think the main point is not to mix them retardedly, sugar and milk (ice cream o.o) or pancakes and whipped cream.
meats and veggies/fruits is perfectly fine as they are clean foods.
if you want to gain weight, eat red meats shamelessly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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