Fat Women Destroying Dating Market

[curtsilv]

The average adult woman in the US weighs 168.5 pounds and is under 5'4". The data however was collected from 2011-2014, meaning the average adult woman in the US almost certainly weighs 170 pounds or more. This translated to a body mass index of 29.4. A BMI over 25 is overweight, and a BMI over 30 is extremely overweight. In other words, in a few years' time, the average women will be extremely overweight. 70% of women are overweight or extremely overweight.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/body-measurements.htm

As you might have guessed this is destroying the dating market. It means only 30%, at most, of women are acceptably slim. A significant percentage of those women however won't be pretty. That means that maybe 15% of women are reasonably attractive. As women get fatter, this percentage will also decrease. In effect, 100% of men are chasing 15 to 30% of all women. This is creating a tremendous imbalance in the dating market.

Women everywhere else in the industrialized world (except mexico, whose women are even fatter) are far slimmer and healthier. European women and Asian women are much slimmer. This has led to skyrocketing value for slim, young attractive women in the US and most men's value has collapsed in comparison, since so many men are now fat, passive, and demoralized. Something has to change very radically to get things back to normal.

 

[Spaz]

Nah. You still hv millions of slim women to take in the US.

See the opportunities and seize it.

 

[Tilex]

The online dating market has already catered to fat women. It's the only market where being fat n' all that gets validation from thirsty men.
These foolish women have no chance in the real world.

 

[Serenity]

100% of men are chasing 15 to 30% of all women.

Sure, but a whole lot men are also fat as fvck in America which increases your odds by a lot if you're not one of them. You can't look at this from just one side...

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Fat women aren't destroying shyte.

it's the desperate losers that are giving them goddess like attention that's ruining it.

 

[The Duke]

OP yes there are more fat women, however there are more fat men as well. The demand for attractive/thin women won't increase unless the number of fat women increases and the number of fat men decreases. Thats not happening, both the number of fat men and fat women is increasing so it won't effect an attractive/thin guy's chances.

Its like living in a city with 50,000 women available vs. 1million women available. Unless the ratio of men to women isn't close to 1:1 then a mans chances are not any different.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Fat women aren't destroying shyte.

it's the desperate losers that are giving them goddess like attention that's ruining it.

Skinny women deserves this attention?

 

[wifehunter]

Don't let gorillas chase you, and you'll be fine!

 

[Ranger]

I don’t have a comment for this thread.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Skinny women deserves this attention?

Nobody deserve's shyte unless it's agreed upon in a legal contract.

Presupposing the idea that some people "deserve" ANYTHING in male-female relationships is a source of agony.

Dudes, for example, think they DESERVE a hot girl simply because they have a degree and a job.

Once upon a time, not a lot of guys would chase fatties, so women were naturally incentivized to not be fat.

Now that fatties can get laid any time they want, there are very few EXTERNAL incentives to not be fat.

Why would anybody waste time exercising and dieting if they didn't need to?

 

[sangheilios]

Those statistics also apply to men as well, the crazy part is certain parts of the country will have even more dismal numbers.

The reality is this, people tend to date those who are roughly on par with them across multiple factors, with weight and attractiveness being one of them. The problem here is for a fit and attractive person to find another like them and is actually single is a difficult prospect, and this isn't even taking personal compatibility into consideration.

Let's say we have Stacey, she is 5'6", 27, is pretty (7/10) and exercises regularly/has nice body, in real life a woman like this is easily top 5%. She may get propositioned a lot by tons of dudes but she is most likely going to gravitate towards men that are roughly on par with her.

 

[resilient]

Now that fatties can get laid any time they want, there are very few EXTERNAL incentives to not be fat. Why would anybody waste time exercising and dieting if they didn't need to?

Lol.. I have an ex who has huge following of thirsty chumps on social media. I watched a recent story of hers on IG complaining how a crap load of fitness freaks recently started following her and she ranted and said ‘Why are you following me?? Do I look like I hit the gym? Do I look like I workout all the time?” She pretty much said in w0manese “hey, I’ve got a gigantic harem of dudes constantly joining my orbiter army while I continue to stay in every night slaying it, streaming Netflix while eating a bucket of deep fried chicken and bon bons... and still thirsty dudes keep hitting me up to hookup because I have an inbox accepting DMs.” Lmao!

My golden nugget in my story is next the chicks who are heavy Facebook/instagram users posting sexy selfies on the daily. They’re not going to turn into loyal magical unicorns ready for LTR and close their social media and OLD accounts because they’re addicted to attention and validation.

There honestly is no incentive to get into shape.

The only reason I would feel these women who take their health seriously are 1) heart attack, diabetes, vitamins deficiencies 2) face ages with wrinkles, hair goes gray ... even then she can still color her hair or wear extra makeup, photoshop blemishes, angles. etc. a guy will only if he goes out on a date and sees her face up close and in person.

 

[curtsilv]

OP yes there are more fat women, however there are more fat men as well. The demand for attractive/thin women won't increase unless the number of fat women increases and the number of fat men decreases. Thats not happening, both the number of fat men and fat women is increasing so it won't effect an attractive/thin guy's chances.

Its like living in a city with 50,000 women available vs. 1million women available. Unless the ratio of men to women isn't close to 1:1 then a mans chances are not any different.

And these fat guys and average guys are all chasing the hotter girls. Many if not most will settle for fatties but they will definitely chase hotter girls initially.

 

[curtsilv]

Lol.. I have an ex who has huge following of thirsty chumps on social media. I watched a recent story of hers on IG complaining how a crap load of fitness freaks recently started following her

I know what you mean. I was dating a girl in college who was ridiculously hot. However, she moved away and now I see her maybe once a year if that. She's gained a lot of weight and now she has an ass ton of black guys following her on instagram.

 

[curtsilv]

Those statistics also apply to men as well, the crazy part is certain parts of the country will have even more dismal numbers.

The reality is this, people tend to date those who are roughly on par with them across multiple factors, with weight and attractiveness being one of them. The problem here is for a fit and attractive person to find another like them and is actually single is a difficult prospect, and this isn't even taking personal compatibility into consideration.

Let's say we have Stacey, she is 5'6", 27, is pretty (7/10) and exercises regularly/has nice body, in real life a woman like this is easily top 5%. She may get propositioned a lot by tons of dudes but she is most likely going to gravitate towards men that are roughly on par with her.

She is easily top 5% among single women, yes. This is because all of the 8+ girls are already in relationships or married. I suspect these 7/10 girls deliberately remain on the market since they have ridiculous power relative to their looks. They can attract a huge number of average and below average looking men and have them worshiping at her feet, but all of the better looking guys can pull hotter girls and won't necessarily remain loyal to her.

 

[wifehunter]

I don’t have a comment for this thread.

It's ok, I comment for you:

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She is easily top 5% among single women, yes. This is because all of the 8+ girls are already in relationships or married. I suspect these 7/10 girls deliberately remain on the market since they have ridiculous power relative to their looks. They can attract a huge number of average and below average looking men and have them worshiping at her feet, but all of the better looking guys can pull hotter girls and won't necessarily remain loyal to her.

Not even for a second. She knows and wont care. Acclimated to pump and dump.

 

[Ranger]

It's ok, I comment for you:

What the hell do I just watch. Lol

 

[wifehunter]

What the hell do I just watch. Lol

lolz! You never heard of Weird Al?

 

[MatureDJ]

Something has to change very radically to get things back to normal.

I myself have radically changed the geography of my locale.