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someone as fat as the author isn't going to benefit from going to the gym other than prolonging her life, she'd turn into a bag of sagging flesh. Sad but true.

I had hoped that, in this age of body positivity, men would no longer need to hide their desires when it comes to fat women.


This shows the delusion that goes into this article. Most men don't desire fat women, and the "body positivity" movement is by unattractive women, for unattractive women.
 

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A woman wrote an open letter to men who will have sex with her but won’t date her.


In my opinion, she could have signed up for a gym membership in the time she took to write the article.

Thoughts?
This letter wasn't addressed to me or most guys I know. I wouldn't have sex with her, unless she paid me at least 100 000$ then I will consider it.. of course I would need some VIAGRA and this little thing from Men in Black which could erase memories. There is some small percentage of men who like or even prefer overweight women though, so they always have chance.
 

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This situation can be explained by Sexual Market Theory. Men have a strong desire to do coitus with women; sure, slender women are preferred, but if the fat chick is only thing that is "open & available", and the man has had a dry spell, he will stick it into the fat chick. Men have less of a desire to have a relationship, and indeed consider a relationship along the same lines as mate selection, and so men are similar to women in that they want their mate to be of good genetics, and so men don't want to date fat chicks.

Therefore there is a Sexual Market Value (SMV) differential between what a man would stick it into and what a man would put a ring on; thus, a man's desire in women can be considered to be 3 zones: [A] women that he would marry (or date, etc., and of course which includes wanting to stick it in her); [C] women that he would not marry, but would want to stick it in; and [D] women that he would not even want to stick it in. Considering single mommies, zone [A] would be much smaller than with childless women, quite often having the attribute that a mathematician would deem "zero measure". And a man who has access to affordable professional sex services will typically have the [C]-[D] delimiter be close to the [A]-[C] delimiter, considering such women that are in this zone as being worthy of professional purchase at a free price - and this is similar to a woman's natural desire in men, as she would want to marry any man that she would want to have free sex with.

The fat chick's experience was simply one where she was in zone for this particular man. And of course it wasn't stated, but the fat chick probably had a relatively high [A]-[C] delimiter, and considered this man as being an [A], and since she finds men - who put her into their [C] zone - at this SMV level with some level of abundance, she has spurned men who are on such a low level of inceldom that they might have put her into the [A] zone. IOW, because she can get sexed by higher-tier men, she considers herself at this higher-tier herself because she has made the mistake of considering the her dating SMV as being equal to her sexing SMV.
 

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The FAM (Fat Acceptance Movement) will put a meme or article on line portraying an ideal plus size model and invariably say, “Nobody like a bone but a dog,” knowing that very few substantially overweight women look like that. Then they call into question the manhood of any man who wouldn’t want that.
 

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And I'm sure she is inclusive in the same way toward short and fat bald men, I'm sure she will come up with an article like that:

"Just because you cant brag about him doesnt mean he is any less than chad"
 

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I like fat girls, they're my preference. In this case after checking out pics of her on her own site, it seems like the woman in the field picture with the camera is a stock picture and not her as you might first have thought. So it could be that she's too ugly and the guy couldn't do better, more so than that she's fat, although it could be either. My thoughts on it overall are that you and everyone else on this board who spends their time coming together to find people to make fun of and put down, bring the content of this board down with your pathetic behavior. You show an example of how to be more like a mean, gossiping kid than a suave guy with his own life, an example only for other losers to follow.
i like fat girls too because i like feeling like loser
 

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A woman wrote an open letter to men who will have sex with her but won’t date her.


In my opinion, she could have signed up for a gym membership in the time she took to write the article.

Thoughts?
Signing up for a gym would be taking responsibility.
She took the easy way out and blamed him.
 

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I wouldn’t touch fat girls even if I was in a serious, serious drought.
 

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OMG, lol, that's just too much. I could see maybe being 20 pounds overweight, which for a female is actually a lot, but that woman is at a completely different league. People that enjoy food, going out to eat, etc. may be a bit overweight but to be at that level shows a huge array of issues.

In order to be as big as she is you would have to have a complete lack of respect for yourself and your body, have literally zero impulse control in regards to eating and be so lazy and useless that you just do nothing all day long. There are also a huge range of psychological and emotional issues that go well beyond what I had mentioned.
 

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Not me i like fit women. But others like heavier ones.
Pretty sure men that would legitimately find her attractive and desirable are surely an anomaly. Granted, there are many men out there that are in relationships or date women that are grossly overweight, not pun intended, but I guarantee they really want a woman who has a nice tight and beautiful body.
 

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The FAM (Fat Acceptance Movement) will put a meme or article on line portraying an ideal plus size model and invariably say, “Nobody like a bone but a dog,” knowing that very few substantially overweight women look like that. Then they call into question the manhood of any man who wouldn’t want that.
They already have. Claiming that men that like a bone arent real men.
 

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"Fat girls are just as hot as other girls.....but guys under 6 feet should drop dead....."

Sincerely,
A sexy fat girl
 

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Just hope this doesn't become the norm... Scary sh!t out there.

http://instagr.am/p/Bzwk4gnnbzo/
I haven’t looked at the comments on that IG post but I’m sure there’s plenty of “yaas queen” or “so beautiful” on it

I don’t understand the appeal. Like you or someone else said... 15-20 pounds overweight can be okay sometimes. When you’re as overweight as Tess is where you literally have to lift your stomach fat to see your cooch...

not to mention all the health risks that come with being that overweight. not sexy at all
 
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