"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fat really is Public Enemy #1.

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I was in the Upper East Side in New York City last night visiting a friend.

I am from Central Jersey and don't go to NYC that often.

Now, we went to a couple of bars and we were not even in a rich area.

I think I saw maybe 1 fat person out of like 1000.

95% of the females (even the ones who were middle aged) were attractive because they were for the most part in good physical shape.

Contrast this when I was in Target in New Jersey the other day:

Every other damned person was fat!!

Sorry about the fat rant, but fat people just piss me off.

THEY HAVE NO SELF-RESPECT.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if u live in the city, you're doing a lot of walking. You won't see as many overweight people as a town might have.

I completely disagree w/ the 'no self-respect' statement. Obviously, some might not give a sh#t, but for some, its genetic.

But yes, when I see a fat person, first thing that comes to mind is no drive, no motivation.....laziness. Which might not necessarily be the case, but a common stereotype
 

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Wiesman44 said:
if u live in the city, you're doing a lot of walking. You won't see as many overweight people as a town might have.

I completely disagree w/ the 'no self-respect' statement. Obviously, some might not give a sh#t, but for some, its genetic.

But yes, when I see a fat person, first thing that comes to mind is no drive, no motivation.....laziness. Which might not necessarily be the case, but a common stereotype

You are wrong, genetic cases make only a small proportion of obese people.

Most people are obese due to poor eating habits and sedentary lifesytle.

The fact that New York City has very few fat people proves my point.
 

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stuka1939 said:
You are wrong, genetic cases make only a small proportion of obese people.

Most people are obese due to poor eating habits and sedentary lifesytle.

The fact that New York City has very few fat people proves my point.
what the fk do u think the word 'some' means u stupid bastard ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44 said:
what the fk do u think the word 'some' means u stupid bastard ?
Well then you should of said "small minority". "Some" could mean atleast 1/3, which in itself, it alot.
 
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