"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is she a fattie?

  • yes

    Votes: 44 72.1%
  • no

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's no fatty (as in not morbidly obese). But she's chubby. She should hit the treadmill.
 

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Treadmill!!!!
 

CGE333

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Not only is she chubby but you can tell by looking at her that as time goes by she will continue to gain weight. In 5 years she will probably be obese, look at how loose the skin is on her. She will gain weight and when/if she has a kid then look oouuutttt.

Besides all of that, i'm sorry but the face is not attractive. If she was cute you could maybe deal with the body, but i'm not seeing much to work with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Can any one else tell that she's sucking her gut in?
 

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I wouldn't touch her with my worst enemy's d**k, but I might let him at her friend. I have very limited respect for and zero attraction to fat people though.
 

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Yup she is overweight. Her hips and the area below her navel look weird. Also look at her arms, those aren't thin/toned girl arms.

Would I still do her? But of course ;)
 

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She wouldn't be so fat if she didn't have so much fat.


Cheers!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Gross.
 

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They're both fat, the friend looks like she's all fat just a little less of it. Lock the fridge and hit the treadmill ladies. Adding insult to injury, the one on the left is ugly too. At least her friend would look nice sucking cock.
 

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immrtlwun said:
I wouldn't touch her with my worst enemy's d**k, but I might let him at her friend. I have very limited respect for and zero attraction to fat people though.
Agreed. Fat people disgust me as well because most don't do anything to help themselves. If you can't lose weight dieting or exercising go get liposuction or weigh loss surgery or something.

I am in shape and STILL take the stairs to the second floor while my fat ass co-workers take the elevator. NO EXCUSE.

Oh and yeah, she is a little bit overweight. (Probably about 10 lbs or so).
 

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THIS just shows how the MAJORITY of WOMEN look.

ONTOPIC: yes the women is fat , look at her waist line you can see the fat OVER the line plus look at her armpits.....the skin is getting mushed togethor....not a total waste but she doesnt watch what she eats and I agree that she will continue to get fatter cause she doesnt watch what she eats.

The other girl is how the other women look....skinny.
She probably eats junk food all day but since she is young her metabolism took care of it but NOW you can see her tummy start to bulge (The line above her naval) ....

They both have bad eating habits as do most women and you can RARELY find a women that is TONED and not just skinny, the only time you see a toned women is in the Olympics or sports but even then they are either super skinny or have lots of mass for the the sport.

I havent seen one women that is the ideal look for women the toned women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I may just have a horrific fetish (at least to other guys) but despite the pudge these girls ARE NOT FAT. I've learned over the years that for the most part women are fck'd up enough about their weight and image, so it disgusts me when other guys (and girls) pick apart a girl's looks.

That said, it wouldn't hurt for her to tone up a little but she still looks decent.
 

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I agree with tyte eyez on this one and to go along with my previous post about my lack of respect for fat people. Its not that they're fat, its that they are content to be that way and not try to improve. I respect the larger people that I see in the gym because they are trying to do something about their weight issue. But when they just sit and eat and complain about being fat, I lose any and all respect for them. They say they've tried to lose weight and can't, but to them trying means they tried to use a treadmill once or twice and it was too hard so they gave up.
 

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Definitely.

The funny thing about body image is that most people tend to judge obesity based on their own physique. If you're overweight and your regular peer group is fatter than you, you tend to think you're "normal". I was once in Panama with a group of Dutch people I work with and a very attractive Panamanian girl asked me if I was Dutch. I told her, no, I was American and she said "oh, you don't 'look' American. I asked her what an American 'looks' like and she said, "well, they're all fat."

Trust me, that woman is obese.
 

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The one on the left is definitely overweight, and possibly obese. I'm guessing somewhere between 29 and 31 BMI (30 or higher defined as obese using BMI).

The one on the right is probably normal weight (24-25 BMI), but could use some conditioning, especially in her abs and quads. Even still, she's pretty attractive even as-is.

BMI's are quite brutal though, and often highly disagreed with. I think its crazy that I'm almost 24 BMI, but most folks say I could use some pounds. This get's into what RT was saying; I'm being judged in comparison to my (overweight) peers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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