"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fat loss has tapered off...how to keep burning?

samueladams

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So since last sept. I decide to get my butt in gear and get back into shape. I used to be a college soccer player and was quite fit back then (4 years back).

Am 6'2" and was about 230...back in my fit college days I was around 170 so I ballooned up thanks to getting complacent having a LTGF.

Anyways since then I've been pretty good about making an effort. I eat a lot better, about 90% of my liquid intake is water, etc.

I've been lifting 5 days a week pretty much this whole time took a month off over the holidays (due in part to some tendinitis) and doing about 25 miles a week of jogging. Probably 50 min. 4 days a week. I've been stuck right at around 185 now for a while and I'm trying to get myself down to 175ish. Just did my body fat the other day and its right at 14%. Goal is to be down under 10%...6 or 7 would be ideal but that's gonna take longer. Anyways i've been stuck between 185-188ish now for 3 weeks and not seeing the 1-3 lb. drop per week like I have been.

Do I need to mix up my cardio and work in some high intensity/interval type stuff or just pay more serious attention to my diet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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Simplest thing is to just eat normally again for a couple of days to reset your metabolism and thyroid. Have lots of good carbs, maybe some junk. But I'd have to see your whole diet to make a more educated comment.

High intensity cardio is an option but getting from 14 to 10% bf shouldn't require it.
 

Throttle

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you haven't given enough about your diet or exercise for us to diagnose. lifting 5 days a week doesn't sound like a good plan, and if you're jogging that often you probably aren't getting much out of leg & posterior chain work (if you're doing any at all). the cardio sounds fine. need to know more about the diet to comment intelligently.
 
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