"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker

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by all means, the every once in a while McDonalds or Taco Bell won't kill you... If I go out at night, usually once a week, I make a stop by Taco Bell. But every day? Breakfast, lunch, Dinner? No way in hell.

I mean, is it THAT damn hard to cook something somewhat healthy?

For fat people, the answer is yes.

**** fat people. I mean, they are fat. Think about how lazy you have to be FAT. you get up in the morning, look at yourself and say "damn, i'm fat" "men are repusled by me, I am making my heart work harder then it should, my arrotires are probably clauged, I have a Mcdonalds Credit Card, but these damn Doulbe Quarter Pounders are the ****!"

AT lest with being drunk, it happens instantly and can go away... If I get drunk tonight, by having too many drinks, it wil take no more than 1 hour to get drunk.

Getting FAT takes months, even years of eatting FAT foods and ToO many of them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
I think I need another break from this place. Fat liberation isn't a real movement: fat lib groups aren't plentiful, they dont threaten society in anyway, most fat ppl dont want to be fat, but lack the personal efficacy to change, this is not all that important, there is not a hot girl shortage, this just another wasteful hot button issue for internet forum junkies and bottom level talk show host types to whine about.

Such a non issue.....

no one here is truly concerned over the health of fat people, its is our own self-rightiousness that we stroke when we broach BS topics like this.
Exactly...
 

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by backbreaker
by all means, the every once in a while McDonalds or Taco Bell won't kill you... If I go out at night, usually once a week, I make a stop by Taco Bell. But every day? Breakfast, lunch, Dinner? No way in hell.

I mean, is it THAT damn hard to cook something somewhat healthy?

For fat people, the answer is yes.

**** fat people. I mean, they are fat. Think about how lazy you have to be FAT. you get up in the morning, look at yourself and say "damn, i'm fat" "men are repusled by me, I am making my heart work harder then it should, my arrotires are probably clauged, I have a Mcdonalds Credit Card, but these damn Doulbe Quarter Pounders are the ****!"

AT lest with being drunk, it happens instantly and can go away... If I get drunk tonight, by having too many drinks, it wil take no more than 1 hour to get drunk.

Getting FAT takes months, even years of eatting FAT foods and ToO many of them.
Alcoholism kills people...even people who aren't alcoholics. Drunk drivers kill all kinds of people while they rot out their liver and kidneys. At least fat people don't kill other people by eating too many twinkies.

Who cares if some people are fat? It's no skin off my butt. Live and let live...if people want to be fat all the more power to them.
 
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