backseatjuan
Banned
Your physical apperance does not matter, it's the condition of your soul. If your soul says I want to be a gymnast and your body weight 400 lbs, it takes balls and skillz to win an event!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.