"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fat girls considered the 'norm' in America?!?

horaholic

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So I just saw an ad for that retarded reality show "more to love." and one of the contestants said "Its so nice to see someone who likes NORMAL girls"

I dont know about you all, but if I were attracted to fat girls, I could live like a freakin' KING. There are SO many of them nowadays, there are becoming the 'norm.' What the fvck is this country/world coming to?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've whined about that alot myself, here.

It's especially bad for us since it puts an extra premium on the worthwhile females.
 

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i saw the commercial too and i busted out laughing.

huge difference between desperation & attraction

alot of people think normal = good, so anything that's not "normal" is seen as bad. but anything can become normal.

we're living in the "accept me for who i am" era.

some people's mindsets are "if you don't 100% accept me for who i am (now matter how f*cked up i am) then something's wrong with you", that why the word hater or haterz is so popular.

alot of people were raised to believe being attracted to someone because of how they look is bad and that you're superfacial.

if you ever try to talk about what kind of woman you're attracted to in a mix group or with just woman around, you're most likely going to get shamed.

from my experience the 1st thing a guy needs to do to change his ways with woman is to remove the fear of angering/dissapointing the woman around him.
 
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I find it quite ironic. Fat women tend to be the first ones to whine about accepting them for who they are. They'll call men shallow, yet if you ask how many of them would date a 300 pound guy, you'd hear crickets chirp. It's the ultimate in hypocrisy. They play the victim, yet do the same things they accuse others of.
 

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For you Americans, fat is now the norm by pure statistics.
I'm lucky I like a bit of meat on my women, but certainly not to the point where they would be considered overweight. Still, they are easier to find than guys that have a preference to stick-thin supermodels.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think that country can be saved. I went to New York last Christmas (I’m from Europe). The room in the hotel where everybody had their breakfast had about eight TV's. About 4 or 5 of them had programs on about losing weight or fitness equipment that can help you lose weight. Yet most of the food you could eat was really unhealthy. Sugary bread, muffins, bagels, etcetera. I just busted out laughing. It was just too absurd in every way.

It’s too easy to recognize American tourists here. They’re beyond fat. I see two of them walk outside right now. They look like they can hardly walk anymore.

That’s what you get when you have so much freedom. It’s so easy and cheap to make foods with a lot of fat and sugar. And it’s really addictive. When you got your customers hooked, there’s no way they can let go.

If that’s the norm in the US now, good luck!
 

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It remind me a fat girl in my high school that was looking only for strong built slim guys who are not superficial about girls body. :rolleyes:
 

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Reminds me of all the land whale walking around. They should rename this show "Whale Wars."

Anyways, does anybody know if its any better in Canada? I might move there. Or maybe even Australia?
 

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It's not just America. I saw this show that took place in England about a fat women who had problems with her fat (well, duh). They took pics of her in her underwear and then made a huge poster of a picture of her back that they put on the side of a building. Then they asked people passing by what they thought of her. All the reactions were positive (though they probably just cut out the negative ones) with comments like "she has a nice butt" or "beautiful curves". I couldn't believe that anyone without a feeding fetish could actually be positive about her lardy back and ass. I mean she had fat flabs on her fat flabs.
 

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A saw a pof heifer's ad that was mostly an extensive description of the meal that she would eat at the restaurant she wanted to be taken to on a first date. She also described what her date would order...all in extensive detail. The entire ad was about two plates of food.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desert Fox said:
Reminds me of all the land whale walking around. They should rename this show "Whale Wars."

Anyways, does anybody know if its any better in Canada? I might move there. Or maybe even Australia?
Canada is nearly as bad. I heard that Canadian women are even *****ier than US women.

Australia - slowly changing and becoming more American, especially around Sydney, but there still is a macho-culture out there, where women are expected to look healthy and feminine. I may very well move there, seeing as I have dual-citizenship (my dad is Australian by birth). Good weather, good food, and cheap land, whilst salaries for doctors are nearly as high as the UK's.
 

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Hughman said:
Canada is nearly as bad. I heard that Canadian women are even *****ier than US women.

Australia - slowly changing and becoming more American, especially around Sydney, but there still is a macho-culture out there, where women are expected to look healthy and feminine. I may very well move there, seeing as I have dual-citizenship (my dad is Australian by birth). Good weather, good food, and cheap land, whilst salaries for doctors are nearly as high as the UK's.
Damn that sucks. I guess I'll just have to move to a better bigger city, like NYC, LA, Chicago, or Miami. Miami has some hot babes.
 

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Hughman said:
Canada is nearly as bad. I heard that Canadian women are even *****ier than US women.

Australia - slowly changing and becoming more American, especially around Sydney, but there still is a macho-culture out there, where women are expected to look healthy and feminine. I may very well move there, seeing as I have dual-citizenship (my dad is Australian by birth). Good weather, good food, and cheap land, whilst salaries for doctors are nearly as high as the UK's.
Actually, a lot of reports are saying that Australia is fatter than America.
http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,23893350-5013404,00.html

I don't know though....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hughman said:
Australia - slowly changing and becoming more American, especially around Sydney, but there still is a macho-culture out there, where women are expected to look healthy and feminine.
I live in Australia. Let me save you the troubles of moving down here by declaring that a big fat FALSE.

We either matched or overtook the Americans earlier this year as the fattest nation in the world.
 

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No, it isn't the norm, much less anything I'd consider dateable.

Guoy Darko said:
I don't think that country can be saved.
Oh, you.
 

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Desert Fox said:
Damn that sucks. I guess I'll just have to move to a better bigger city, like NYC, LA, Chicago, or Miami. Miami has some hot babes.
I saw a documentary about fat people in the US, a few months ago. Its conclusion was that the greater the radius of the city was, the fatter the average person. Mostly because people don’t want to walk anywhere because everything is so spread out and they take the car instead. That is why cities like Houston and San Antonio scored so high. I don’t know which cities score high now, but I was in Manhattan a few months ago and I didn’t saw a lot of fat. Probably because Manhattan has a small radius.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I live in Australia. Let me save you the troubles of moving down here by declaring that a big fat FALSE.

We either matched or overtook the Americans earlier this year as the fattest nation in the world.
Of all the American trends for the rest of the world to follow....

Last night i saw another add for that show. It said the average size of a woman in the USA is size 12-16 nowadays. I expect the obesity rate here to move upwards after this show airs. Sad times a-comin, men. Its practically telling women its OK to be "plus size"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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