this fat girl i had sex with a few times really likes me and now shes texting me if i wanna hang out again. its been a full week since we hung out. im not attracted to her at all and she texted me today saying "hi. we catching up soon?" i dont know what to say without hurting her feelings.. btw, ive dumped her before and then i called her up once again so its my fault in a way for bringing her back into my life. now im gonna ditch her again :S should i just keep her as a friend and if so how should i tell her that
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
fat girl - tell her i dont like her?
- Thread starter blackwolf
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ever tried reverse psychology?blackwolf said:
How do you think she'd react if you told her you liked her a lot and really wanted to get serious with her?
I did this once. There was a girl from work (the first time we banged it was in the sick room), but a few months later it didn't workout but she kept messaging me.
She threatened to go work and tell them about me fvcking her in the sick room.
I purposely sent her an AFC message about how I missed her so much, I just wanted to be with her, could she take me back? blah blah blah...made me sick, but I was playing a high stakes game.
She sent me a message back, no I had to move on, which I gladly did and never heard from her again.
Of course, she wasn't fat since I don't do fat chicks. On second thoughts, you probably shouldn't try this in your case since it may do the opposite, draw her in and then you'd be even worse off
Just do a No Contact fadeout, act busy and she'll get the hint. But depending on how you're prospects work out, you'd then have her on standby if you became really desperate
easy. you turn them over and fuk them from behind. but i got bored of doing doggie style everytime i saw her. i wanna pick up a skinny girl and place her on my dik or lift her up against the wall. can't do that with this one :/Jet said:
that would definitely make her chase me more lol.runner83 said:Ever tried reverse psychology?
How do you think she'd react if you told her you liked her a lot and really wanted to get serious with her?
I did this once. There was a girl from work (the first time we banged it was in the sick room), but a few months later it didn't workout but she kept messaging me.
She threatened to go work and tell them about me fvcking her in the sick room.
I purposely sent her an AFC message about how I missed her so much, I just wanted to be with her, could she take me back? blah blah blah...made me sick, but I was playing a high stakes game.
She sent me a message back, no I had to move on, which I gladly did and never heard from her again.
Of course, she wasn't fat since I don't do fat chicks. On second thoughts, you probably shouldn't try this in your case since it may do the opposite, draw her in and then you'd be even worse off
Just do a No Contact fadeout, act busy and she'll get the hint. But depending on how you're prospects work out, you'd then have her on standby if you became really desperate
haha, just told her over msn. pretty poor and weak but i couldnt stand to do it in person or even see her again. she was pretty pissed and kept raving on about bullsh1t. i should of just said all in one line; dont like you, like someone else, sorry for wasting ur time, goodbye." instead it turned into a funny ten minute debate. she probably would of just seen the girl who posted on my wall on facebook too about having sex lol. (i know she looks at my fb, she told me she looks at it everyday) anyway. i told her i didnt feel the same way she probably felt about me (but then she kept bullsh1tting saying she didnt want me as a friend or relationship. what a crock cause she wouldnt leave me alone) - also told her i liked someone else and that was it pretty much.
she tried to act like she was the sh1t by repeating that she was deleting me THIS time and telling me to delete her number looool. she just wouldnt shut up so i ended up signing out without saying goodbye. meh, was funny to me anyway. at least i fuking told her instead of ignoring her.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.