this fat girl i had sex with a few times really likes me and now shes texting me if i wanna hang out again. its been a full week since we hung out. im not attracted to her at all and she texted me today saying "hi. we catching up soon?" i dont know what to say without hurting her feelings.. btw, ive dumped her before and then i called her up once again so its my fault in a way for bringing her back into my life. now im gonna ditch her again :S should i just keep her as a friend and if so how should i tell her that
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
fat girl - tell her i dont like her?
- Thread starter blackwolf
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ever tried reverse psychology?blackwolf said:
How do you think she'd react if you told her you liked her a lot and really wanted to get serious with her?
I did this once. There was a girl from work (the first time we banged it was in the sick room), but a few months later it didn't workout but she kept messaging me.
She threatened to go work and tell them about me fvcking her in the sick room.
I purposely sent her an AFC message about how I missed her so much, I just wanted to be with her, could she take me back? blah blah blah...made me sick, but I was playing a high stakes game.
She sent me a message back, no I had to move on, which I gladly did and never heard from her again.
Of course, she wasn't fat since I don't do fat chicks. On second thoughts, you probably shouldn't try this in your case since it may do the opposite, draw her in and then you'd be even worse off
Just do a No Contact fadeout, act busy and she'll get the hint. But depending on how you're prospects work out, you'd then have her on standby if you became really desperate
easy. you turn them over and fuk them from behind. but i got bored of doing doggie style everytime i saw her. i wanna pick up a skinny girl and place her on my dik or lift her up against the wall. can't do that with this one :/Jet said:
that would definitely make her chase me more lol.runner83 said:Ever tried reverse psychology?
How do you think she'd react if you told her you liked her a lot and really wanted to get serious with her?
I did this once. There was a girl from work (the first time we banged it was in the sick room), but a few months later it didn't workout but she kept messaging me.
She threatened to go work and tell them about me fvcking her in the sick room.
I purposely sent her an AFC message about how I missed her so much, I just wanted to be with her, could she take me back? blah blah blah...made me sick, but I was playing a high stakes game.
She sent me a message back, no I had to move on, which I gladly did and never heard from her again.
Of course, she wasn't fat since I don't do fat chicks. On second thoughts, you probably shouldn't try this in your case since it may do the opposite, draw her in and then you'd be even worse off
Just do a No Contact fadeout, act busy and she'll get the hint. But depending on how you're prospects work out, you'd then have her on standby if you became really desperate
haha, just told her over msn. pretty poor and weak but i couldnt stand to do it in person or even see her again. she was pretty pissed and kept raving on about bullsh1t. i should of just said all in one line; dont like you, like someone else, sorry for wasting ur time, goodbye." instead it turned into a funny ten minute debate. she probably would of just seen the girl who posted on my wall on facebook too about having sex lol. (i know she looks at my fb, she told me she looks at it everyday) anyway. i told her i didnt feel the same way she probably felt about me (but then she kept bullsh1tting saying she didnt want me as a friend or relationship. what a crock cause she wouldnt leave me alone) - also told her i liked someone else and that was it pretty much.
she tried to act like she was the sh1t by repeating that she was deleting me THIS time and telling me to delete her number looool. she just wouldnt shut up so i ended up signing out without saying goodbye. meh, was funny to me anyway. at least i fuking told her instead of ignoring her.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.