"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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'Fat' could become 'normal' in America by 2015

Francisco d'Anconia

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speakeasy said:
I remember back in the day when my "lunch" from work might consist of a large fry from McDonalds, milk shake and an apple pie. Yikes! Or I used to get slurpees from 7/11 after high school, that stuff is like pure HFCS mixed with food coloring!
I was right there with 'ya. Mc-D's Big Mac's only cost $0.95 so it was easy to buy a sack of food for $5.00. The thing is back then we were active daily so you could try to offset all of the trans-fats clogging up you guts.

The big problem is that many kids don't have many physical outlets today. Yeah, there are Soccer-moms shuttling kids to soccer, hockey, football or baseball practice, but that's only a fraction of the kids.

Parents aren't around to kick those kids out of the house until dinner time and dinner is seldom something other than some food-stuff that came in a box or a bag either from a fast food restaurant or something frozen from the store pumped up with preservatives.

So most kids have very strong thumbs from either playing video games or text messaging and that's about it. It's pretty much the same food out there that we ate as kids but we weren't so dependent on it and most of us had somewhat active lifestyles. Should we really put the fault on fast food companies?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I was right there with 'ya. Mc-D's Big Mac's only cost $0.95 so it was easy to buy a sack of food for $5.00. The thing is back then we were active daily so you could try to offset all of the trans-fats clogging up you guts.

The big problem is that many kids don't have many physical outlets today. Yeah, there are Soccer-moms shuttling kids to soccer, hockey, football or baseball practice, but that's only a fraction of the kids.

Parents aren't around to kick those kids out of the house until dinner time and dinner is seldom something other than some food-stuff that came in a box or a bag either from a fast food restaurant or something frozen from the store pumped up with preservatives.

So most kids have very strong thumbs from either playing video games or text messaging and that's about it. It's pretty much the same food out there that we ate as kids but we weren't so dependent on it and most of us had somewhat active lifestyles. Should we really put the fault on fast food companies?
Well the fault is 50/50 because if you look at fast food chains like McD you can clearly see that the ads are for kids. They hook their customers at a young age and pretty soon the kids will get addicted. Sounds sad, but it's true... why do you think they make play areas and happy meals? McD has been trying to expand and take Starbucks' customers by adding TV and "business" style interior. Then again it's the parents who should teach their kids about junk food. Too bad US is filled with bad/fat parents, can't really teach if you don't practice what you preach.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Well the fault is 50/50 because if you look at fast food chains like McD you can clearly see that the ads are for kids.
Who's agreeing to buy these kids all this stuff? I don't see them pulling out their debit cards.
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They hook their customers at a young age and pretty soon the kids will get addicted.
The kids addiction is only a byproduct of their parents addiction to the convenience that fast food restaurants give them. If the parents provided more wholesome food to their children on a consistent basis the kids would probably be more attracted to a different diet.
PeterNorthisawesome said:
Sounds sad, but it's true... why do you think they make play areas and happy meals? McD has been trying to expand and take Starbucks' customers by adding TV and "business" style interior. Then again it's the parents who should teach their kids about junk food.
I completely agree. It's a parent's choice about what their kids eat most of the time.
 

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I'm convinced the lack of active lifestyle is the key issue. Everything else is ancillary or at worst contributory. As kids we used to live a strenuous life and called it "playing", now playing is done on the sofa with an ABC-Box.

*Works for adults too.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Who's agreeing to buy these kids all this stuff? I don't see them pulling out their debit cards.
Yeah, and you don't see any backhands come out when the "NO! I WANT McDONALDS!!!!" temper-tantrums do, either.

Parents will let a kid leave 3/4 of their food on the table, then turn around and let the kid have chips/candy/soda a half-hour after dinner. :crazy:

I think parents should get tax breaks for back-handing kids that are having a temper tantrum in public.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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